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Big Questions: Help and advice

What's the most important thing in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Love is really confusing. I've never experienced it, maybe that's why I can't get my head around it. What's the most important thing in a relationship? I know different people will have different opinions but I'm curious. The majority of us have ...

I have a phobia of condoms, and a phobia of pregnancy! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - I've run into a bit of a snag due to some slightly contradicting phobias of mine. After deciding sex would be in our near future, my boyfriend and I discussed it a little. There seems to be a bit of an issue now, however, and I've gotten to t...

Lost, don't know what to do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been married for 17 years. There is a 12 year age gap between me and my husband. At first it did not seem to matter, but now he has turned 50 and has no teeth, i'm struggling. I have had 2 one night stands in the past and felt very g...

What do men think about "scruffy" women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - What do men think about "scruffy" women? Hi - I am a bit of a hippy chic who goes to a lot of gigs/festivals with other hippyish friends. I have never been particularly smart (eg glossy hair/perfect nails) and even if I wanted to I'm never good wit...

Chronic Unemployment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years is chronically unemployed. He is well educated, and has some good skills, but has been on a consulting gravy train that has allowed him to live, albeit meagerly, on very little actual work. With this has come the leisurely ...

I had a dream last night...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I had a dream last night that upset my whole day the next day. I dreamt I was in a petrol filling station and filling my car up with fuel, I noticed a lovely sporty car pull up opposite the pump i was using, the driver was my ex boyfrien...

Husband cheated and got girl pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - what to do? i'm a christian, but am so confused. married 12 years and he cheated on me and got this young girl pregnant. he wants to stay with me, but how am i supposed to deal with him being involved in another child's life that isn't mine!!? we ...

Any info on moving overseas to fulfill a long distance relationship?

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19 March 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, its a long distance relationship. He lives in the US and im in the UK. Im currently in the USA with him for 3 months before i return home (then in 3 months he will be coming to the UK for a ...

I love him so much and want to fight for my marriage... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - I am so lost and hurting so bad.. My husband and I have been together 18 years we have two boys one is 14 and the other is 4. When my oldest was little I cheated on my husband 3 different times which I know I was wrong, god knows I do, I wish I ...

How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy?...

My family hates my eccentric interests and my choice of career and seem to feel ashamed of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - I've been having a lot of problems with relationships and the reason i love the girl that makes me keep trying is one that has a lot to do with how much she cares about me. Ive never felt loved at home, im a nerd and im a very eccentric person. I ...

Why is my 42 year old boyfriend obsessed with young girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - My fiancé is 42 years old and I am a 24 year old girl. We've been together since I was 20. We get along great about 85% of the time and he treats me very well but it seems like he is obsessed with young girls and youth in general! Most of his/our ...

I don't know whether to be supportive or to be grumpy so he knows how much he's hurt me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Hi all, I am 20 years old and until recently was in a relationship with (let's call him Mike) who's 22. We got together a year ago and a policy that we could kiss other people but nothing more, and to be completely honest about it. A month or so in...

Can anyone tell me how to mend a broken heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Can anyone tell me how to mend a broken heart. I'm totally in love with this fantastic guy. He had a deep obsession once for me, but on deciding to leave his partner (they also have 2 teenage kids) she gave him the biggest guilt trip and now he has ...

Am I being really superficial and selfish for feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: I've been single for a long time, and I recently met a super sweet guy online. After talking on the phone for a few days, we met. He is very good looking but for one thing: his teeth. Most of them are rotten. He rarely smiles, ...

I have hurt my wife - how do I make amends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - I met my wife while taking a professional course last year. Both of us weren't attracted to one another at first, but as she failed one particular test and I coached her, we gradually got closer and eventually fell in love with each other. Alth...

In fear of hurting my best friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend! The way he smiles and makes me laugh, the way we can talk for hours about anything and have the time of our lives i know he feels it to. He talks to me more than he talks to her, he spends alot of time ...

Worries before we wed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - Is it wrong to chat online "face book" or send txts via cell phone to friends and exs whom you'd hooked up with? esp, when your in a committed relationship or officially engaged? we've been together more than 2.5 years, and everythings going really ...

Is their anything I can do to get her parents to listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - My girlfriend had one bad relationship with one guy who was 3 years older then her previous to me and her parents seem to have a stigma over older guys now. Since day one i wanted to talk or meet her parents and try to get their approval i hate ...

Dad has filed a restraining order against him and I miss him so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - okay. well im 17 now and i started sneakin out to see this kid i waz interested in, and we ended up havin sex. no we werent dating. he ended up leavin a hickie on my neck and my dad saw and totally freaked out. so we got in a huge argument and he ...

Why does it take women so long to respond sometimes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - I love women and don't have a lot of experience with them (either friends or girlfriends). But I'm having a difficult time understanding something and I don't know if it's "normal." I have a friend. Long story short, we developed a clos...

I'm scared to go through a general anesthetic and the operation to remove a cyst!!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Hi. I have to have a dermoind ovarian cyst out by surgery. it is 4cms by 4cms. It will need to be taken out either by keyhole or open surgery depending on if they can get to it by keyhole surgery. I am terrified of genral anesthic, and teriified of ...

Is race REALLY still an issue for some people in regards to dating and relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - I am writing about a controversial topic: race. My inquiry today is in regards to the fact that I find it disturbing that some people still think race is an issue in regards to dating and relationships in today's modern society. Let me expalin my ...

Completely in love... but is that enough???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my Fiance for 3 years we have an 18month old daughter and due to be married next year. i love him very much and he treats me like a princess. i have recently started a new job under the same sector as my fiance and i have to come in ...

25 married and pregnant with sexually obsessed cyber sex addicted husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 6 years. Married for 3. We have a 5 year old daughter and i am now 5 months pregnant. I am 25 years old. our relationship seemed to be great until we got married. Since then i have found out various things about him. ...

Twice "married!!!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - My cousin and I are in a relationship. I was married at the time and he was not. We both loved each other deeply and were crazy for each other. So we got married behind the closed doors and was not done in public. We took this relationship very ...

Where do I fall in his list of priorities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - I asked my boyfriend where am I on his priority list he says I'm #3... I wish I was #1. He is #1 to me. Is that unfair? For me to be unhappy about being #3 on his priority list? ...

Will she sleep with him when she gets married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - my girlfriend is being forced to get maried to someone else and she has no other choice. she had planned to get a divorce after she gets married. I just asked for a promise of not sleeping with him and i will always stay with you. Now she is scared ...

Having a hard time...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Having a Hard Time... I'm and my son are going through a hard time right now and want some advise on how to deal with it and go on with our lives. My husband of almost 20 years has left us for his first cousin. She lived in Florida until he...

Do cheaters ever change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Can people really change? A friend of mine has recently asked me out on a date, but I know he cheated on his last girlfriend ALOT. He keeps telling me he's grown up and changed but it wasn't that long ago he was cheating on her. They've since ...

My boyfriend blames himself for not being near when I was raped, he says he loves me but won't even hold me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 3 yrs, since we were 16. He is one yr older then me and when he was 19 he started going to to bars and pubs and stuff with his friends. One night we were at a party and he wanted to leave and go with his friends to a ...