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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other ...

Should I wait 2 years to be with him? And how will I cope for those 2 years when I don't trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and the guy I fancy is 27. He's the best person ive ever met and I love him so much. We have both agreed that until I'm 18 we won't take the relationship and further. I have really big trust problems as so many relationships have gone bad. I ...

I want my teacher to know I love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Okay im almost 19 and i have been in love with my tutor/teacher for the entire year. he is 30. i do a casual course, we go out partying with our teachers and stuff, its great fun. i cannot stop thinking about him it is driving me insane. i even feel ...

Should I take him back or just let go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - First off, I love him and he loves me. It's totally a proven fact. So here's what happend. I'm 19. He's alot older then me, and we broke up the first time because he did not have a job and I was paying rent and all the expenses. I freaked out. He ...

The slightly immature girlfriend... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - my girlfriend is awsome. until a few months ago, we are constantly fighting and it sucks. she gets mad when i dont send her a txt message first to say "hey whats up?' i am a person who doesnt txt for no reason and i have told her that but she doesnt ...

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday but I want him back, how long should I wait to call him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I just broke up with my bf yesterday. he's 32. im 20. We've known each other for 8 months. I broke up with him because I couldn't trust him anymore. after breaking up he called me but I didn't answer so he sent this to me: "I am very sorry that ...

I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...

Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...

I don't want my sadness to be selfish!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met my wife when i was 30, she was 39. We have spent the past 15 years in what our closest friends call the perfect love. I am, however, feeling very depressed about the timing of our love. We did not get to have children together because she had ...

Should I move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - ive got a boyfried who ive been with nearly three years, we are going to be moving in together in a few weeks time although i have doubts. this is because ive just started a new job where i have met a really lovely guy i cant stop thinking about him ...

She said she couldn't return my love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I am single. Over the past few years i have grown very close to a workmate who is 15 years younger than me. She is also single. I have fallen in love with her. I told her and she said that although we were best friends she could not return the my ...

Hotel employee keeps hitting on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I am staying a season at a bed and breakfast in a very small rural community. The innkeepers' 20 year-old son works for his parents doing odd jobs around the place (maintenance, shuttle driving, etc.), so I have to deal with him pretty often. Every ...

I'm a senior, should I date a freshman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I guess this is more a matter of me conflicted with myself. Last night, a group of us (me, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend and 3 of her friends) wet to a haunted house. Long story short, me and one of her friends spent an awful lot of tim...

He lied about his age and about being previously married. Is this salvagable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. About a month ago, I found out that he lied to me about his age. He initially told me he was 35, and when we first began dating he made a really big deal about the age difference ("Are you sure my ...

My girlfriend demands I return her things to her before she's willing to talk about getting back together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - i just read a post that is similar to mine i have a girlfriend that broke up with me there is a age difference im 48 and she is 25 we met and have feelings for each other we have been together for a year and half anyway she had a problem with dru...

Difficult situation with someone 4 years younger than me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Right well here is the story i need help on and i hope pepole can help me: There me who is 16 and this boy which is 12 so 4 years younger than me. we met and the second day we went out because we really really like each other and i didnt feel rig...

I'm in love with my coach!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I am In love with my softball ast. Coach he is 26 I am 17 I no he has feelings for me because he is always texting me and flirting with me we hang out every friday at the football games the biggest problem is I have a bf that I have been with for 3 ...

My social circle thinks it's too big an age difference

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (?) - Hi! I'll just jump straight in and say I've got an age gap issue that's really bugging me. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 29 (30 in 5 weeks) and basically I'm just getting a load of flack from friends and family. I - unfortunately - come from a very Bri...

Do you think he's sterile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I'm nineteen and my boyfriend is a thirty-seven. We've been dating for over a year now. Our sex life has always been great. We have sex at least once a week if not more. (Usually on weekends due to busy schedules.) We're not interested in ha...

I love my "Nice Guy" who doesn't reveal much of himself, and I am feeling shut out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Hello all. I guess I can call myself a “Nice Girl”, and if you met him, you would definitely call my guy a “Nice Guy”. We try our best to do good to each other and community, and we handle disagreements with honesty in a sane manner. We have a ...

I'm interested in my sister's 30 year old ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so I need alot of help. I'll start off by saying I'm 16 years old and I'm mature for my age. And I'm not just saying that. I'm not a fake person. I dont wear to much makeup, but I am very pretty. I dress nicely and I'm chill, but I have a wild ...

Completely in love with my 27 year old teacher!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. Im completely in love with my 27 year old teacher (im 16, so 11 years difference) Yes we have our days when we don't really get along but I guess every relationship has these. He means the world to me and I know I mean the ...

Age Difference Situation please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hello! So its my 14th birthday today, and this boy I am seriously in love with turned 17 exactly a month ago. I've liked him since I was 11, and I met him at school. He added me on Facebook when I was 11, and ever since we've been speaking every ...

When does the age gap become too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - Recently started seeing a friend of a friend, and found out that he is 22 years my senior (I am 44). You do the math. I had simply never asked, and didn't realize he was that much older, he certainly doesn't look it, and our mutual friends are my ...

This guy I like asked me out, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - A guy that I really like and I think likes me just got a friend to ask me out for him! I'm not sure whether to say yes or no because he's known as a bit of a player but his mate says that he genuenly likes me and that he has changed and wouldn't ...

How to get even with my boyfriends ex mistress?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - how to get even with my boyfriends ex mistress, who has now turned on me, although i have done nothing to her in any shape or form!!!!!!! She has hacked into our electric account, mobiles, accused us of assault, (we did not)came to our home, proper ...

Feeling insecure about my relationship with her now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - I fell in love with a 19 years old girl for 2 months now and we seemed to get along very well. She also loves me. We had an argument lately and she said she wanted to break up with me. I didn't take her for serious but then, I found out that a ...

He said I'm way to young for him at the moment... what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

17 October 2010 (F) - hey, im 14 and i met this boy, ive known him for around a year now, and everday i just become more and more in love with him, he likes me to and hes told me that im way to young at the moment. what do i do, the age difference is 5 years....

Why do we go through periods where we don't talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - Hey I've had a situation with this guy who is 10 years older than myself. He has had many female friends before and after me. when we met we became really good friends and he told me multiple times that he thought I needed a good guy and that he ...

Was there a little shine there maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - is he Interested or not?? Just returned from a cruise and a much younger man who I fancied from before was still working on there-several people always book to go back on. he is going on another ship soon but I wont rebook Last time I was on t...

I am 19 and want to make love with my 48 year old friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - hi well im 19 and for the last few years iv really wanted to make love to my friends mom who is 48 she flirts with me and has even held my hand when no one is around how can i take this even further i really want to and think she does too please ...

How to approach an older woman I want to have sex with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - How to approach an older women i want to have sex with her, but dont know what to do? She is about 35 and i am 19 but she really attracts me. she is single and i am. i m not so confident but i dont know why. ...

Will I have more luck with women once they're older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - I am wondering about how age affects relationships. I know that when girls are young (teens to early 20s), they get a LOT of attention from guys. It seems that the girls I want don't want me right now because they have a pretty big selection of ...

I'm almost 30, he's only 21, Should I pursue him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Hi, aunts and uncles I need some advice. I'm approaching 30 and I feel like an overgrown teen again! I have fallen for someone and it's all gone wrong. I'm at Uni gone back for a 4 month course! It's a very stressful course working full time plu...

Age difference is an issue; how do I tell him I love him now no matter what the future is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - He's 34, I'm turning 19. Our relationship is becoming...more intense I think. He calls me before work, on lunch break, and after work. We're always texting each other silly things. Been together almost 8months. We're both difficult people...he's ...

I want to have sex with an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (M) - What should I do if I am 18years old and I want to have sex with an older woman?...

I love my neighbor who's twice my age and never been married...what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I moved into my house about 9 months ago and have been single since then. However, I have a neighbor (literally 2X my age) who's never been married but has had a "girlfriend" for 12 years. She only comes over on Sunday and they are completely ...

He's 40, I'm going to be 18..could it work?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I'm about to be eighteen in November and I'm attracted to a man who's forty. I have to admit, I lied about my age. I said I was nineteen and he bought it because I look the part and use a rich vocabulary. Today, I took the liberty to tell ...

I feel haunted and confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - Please, someone help me this. Months ago, I met an older man who almost forced me to have sex with him. I forgave him two weeks later...Three months later, he took my virginity. Four months after that, he calls me as often as he can, tells me he ...

How long should we wait until he introduces me to his children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - So I'm 19 my boyfriend is 33 and has 3 kids. I was wondering when would it actually be the right time for him to introduce me to his children. He has 2 girls, one is 9 and the other one is 2 and he also has a boy but he's about 10 I'm really n...

Teenage crisis, I fell in love with a guy online who tells me how much he wants me sexually, really confused, please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - hi, so i know someone online, i met him through a friend and hes generally a nice guy, and i love him really, but i dont know if i should let this carry on? he loves me too. but the thing is, hes 22 and im 6 years younger than him. and when he talk...

My older lover dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I'm 28 and i lost my 40 year old girlfriend. She dumped me for several solid reasons after a year and 2 months. She said she loves me i couldn't say it back. I wasn't sure if i loved her if i was afraid to be alone. She wanted me to move in with ...

It seems like only I'm working on our relationship problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - Split up with my husband 4 months ago, not because we don't love each other any more, in fact we're quite nuts about each other, but because there are many factors we just can't seem to overcome - culture differences, huge age difference which ...

My parents think my date is 25, but he's 33 and I don't think they will accept that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 19 year old girl and recently started at a full time work place and I've met someone who I like but he's 14 years older than me! When I first met him I thought he was 25 as he looked that age. So when I started to develop feelings for him, I ...

Should I let go of him, or is this older man (who happens to be my sisters ex!) worth risking everything for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - The thing is, I am a young girl in my late teens and for almost 4 years now I have found myself drawn to an older man. Yes, that may sound rather generic but there’s more to it. It all sort of started when I was 14-ish years old I met this guy ...

My family disapprove of my thing for older men and they are too controlling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - i am an 18 year old girl..i've always liked older men...my last boyfriend and i were 10 years apart..the man i am in love with now is 30 years old, we have been together for almost six months, my family don't know but have already voiced their ...

Can he still be put away for his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Okay so I am "seeing" a man who just turned 29 and I am about to be 19, I am legal now but I have a problem. My aunt and a few other relatives have a problem with me seeing him and theyre against it. I had sex with him when i was almost 16 and he ...

14 year age gap but lied to my parents there was only 6 years apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has recently started work full time and have met someone who I really like but only problem he is 33. He knows that I haven't had sex yet and he respects that and he truely does care for me. The only problem is my family ...

Is it wrong to date someone younger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - hi i just wanna know is it wrong to date a guy younger then me cause he is turning 21 in 3 weeks time and im 28 but we love each other very much.......