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*RSHHogwarts
writes: I have decided to tell my best friend that i love him but i don't know how to tell him we have known eachother scince we were rely young so it will be hard. When im around him i feel rely happy and special. The thing is that i live in a different contry but we chat alot on Facebook. Im going to meet him in a few months. I dont want to tell him via internet or text.How do i tell him that i love him? Any tips??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2014): you are still really young you are placing all your emotion to one person your spelling shows how young you are as the other person said dont be in a hurry to have a relationship if its a ldr then it wont make any difference if you tell him you love him he can just go quiet on you as all he wants to be is friends he could have a secret "girlfriend" he hasnt told you about he might tell you "everything" but he will keep some things to himself
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2014): you asked for advice so im telling you how it is im not saying this to be harsh but you are young and still a child its like someone having a crush on a famous person they actually think they will be with them one day , i dont exactly know how you feel ive read what you put and trying to give you advice since im nearly 3 times your age and have a child myself in the same age group as you i do have a lot of life experience im trying to help you im the outsider giving you my advice you dont have to listen to what i say but i do know a lot more than other people
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reader, GRSHHogwarts +, writes (31 October 2014):
GRSHHogwarts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can deal with LDR and im not asking my mum or his parents to "give up thier lives" for me or him i have been haveing these feelings for him scince we met and i still do now we have known eachother for along time so i know alot about him. He is realy mature than all of the boys i know put together. How do you know how i feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2014): In reality your not really "in love" you love the attention and kindness he has shown you in reality this most likely won't work out as a real relationship it doesn't make a difference how long you have known him you both live in a different country unless either family is willing to give up their lives I.e jobs home friends to up and leave because their teen is in love with someone from another country then its not going to work I see a lot of people claiming to be in a relationship with people online who have never met even after a couple of years, that's not a relationship its an "online close friendship" ur in lust not love I wouldn't bother telling him you love him this would probably scare him away as boys tend to be less mature than girls espesh in relationships I'd just keep him as a friend if you still feel the same way in a few years when your adults (you can live where you want then ) then take it from there, don't be in a hurry with relationship
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