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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2014): Hi everyone,
It's the OP.
I talked to him on the phone tonight! He saw it and LOVED it and told me all about what he wants to do to me when he comes back on Tuesday. LOL
It's all good!
Thanks for all your advice!
I am a happy girl. :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 October 2014):
 I asked my husband who is around your age what he thought and he agreed with EWO... his first response was "he's with his FAMILY, maybe he couldn't see it or he got caught!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2014): Haha EyesWideOpen!
Don't think so.
But just thought I would get a response. Maybe he needed to get some private and alone time to watch it?
Just that it is so racy and I think exciting that he should respond!!!
Makes me feel like crap if there is no response to something like this.
Just some history. He has been emailing me everyday so far except yesterday and so far today nothing.
So maybe cause there is no email now I feel like he has forgotten me or really hated the video!
What would be the odds? I thought it was really awesome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2014): Thanks everyone! I just do not want to worry that I did a bad thing. Lol
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 October 2014):
 Maybe he opened the video when Grandma was sitting next to him....
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (30 October 2014):
 "Are there any other men on this site that would agree?"
You bet. I love your attitude!
I suspect that Sage has a point, though -- Chinese communication standards are quite different from what we're used to in Canada. He'll probably let you know how much he appreciated the vid when he gets home. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2014): Sageoldguy! It's the OP. Come on! You have to keep the spice in a relationship. AT ANY AGE my dear! That means being creative... ;)There is definitely no AGE barrier when it comes to keeping things FUN and ALIVE. Did you seriously say that?I do not think I should regret sending it. Most men would love their girlfriend doing things like this, wouldn't they? It shows their girlfriend is making an effort to please them, keep them right where they are and wanting more... Are there any other men on this site that would agree?Well, if he did receive it and has not replied yet... I am going to have to start worrying. Could he have hated it???I did not think about that scenario. Not even remotely when I sent the video.I THOUGHT it would be a GOOD thing.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 October 2014):
 I'm surprised that a woman of your age (36-40) did something so "giggly-teenage-girl" like...... BUT, it's done.... (Now, please let me step down off my "Holier-than-thou" soapbox with this:)
.... regarding your angst at not receiving a reply from B/F; .... consider, please, that in CHINA, your communication MAY have been intercepted by CENSORS... so B/F may have never received it....
Good luck....
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (30 October 2014):
 Give it some time to hear back. He may be busy.
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