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female
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anonymous
writes:Ok so for the past month I have began to meet my fiancees family a bit more especially his first cousin who he is very close to. I was nervous to meet this guy for two years as I heard he was very sarcastic however after meeting him found that he was to others and not to me. His cousin is a major flirt and very charming and I also have an attraction to him but I know I will never cheat but I do think he is good looking. On a night out we talked loads and he really made me feel involved as his wife and sister didnt want to make an effort aand i am very shy.He made me laugh loads but when I got home my fiancee began saying. Do you love me anymore? I goes yes why? Oh because I saw the way you were staring at my cousin all night? I was drunk and being honest I didnt think I was looking at him.When i said you know ill never cheat he say yeah i trust you but not him he always does this with every woman i ever had. Anyways his cous gave me a very expensive phone and when I tried to pay his cousin for it he wouldnt take a cent for it so I praised him and told my fiancee I like him and that he is very nice Not as in i like him as something more that I like him as a person ..My fiancee all week keeps saying he wants to throw away the phone Now after 8 weeks of begging my fiancee to set a date for our wedding and he said he was busy all of a sudden he wants to set a date.and began saying he wishes he could get married sooner that two years and says this time two years we will be married and probably expecting our first baby. I never heard him speak like this and im just wondering is he mentioning this as he is feeling threatened or something? I need advice as he knows i'd never cheat. or is this a form of jealously? i need advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2014): Respectfully, you are well aware your bf is feeling threatened and jealous.
You admitted to being attracted to his cousin, and from what you wrote, it was obvious when you interacted with him.
Don't know what else to say except enjoy the phone…...
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reader, ramet-x  +, writes (29 October 2014):
 He could be insecure but not with you but his cousin since your fiancee told you that his cousin has slept with all his women.Try and see things from his point of view and then again am not the type to quiestion why a certain gift was given but that cousin's intent i have to you should be wary and carefull around him as you said it hes charming and flirty.Your fiancee trusts you but doesnt trust the cousin(but hey i to wouldnt) thats why he brought the weeding day foward to officially make you his wife so that maybe the cousin can eass off
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