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writes:I moved out home for university in september and very soon after arriving a met someone. we were very close for around 5 weeks seeing each other day. and although we weree offically a couple we may have well of been. admittedly we spent too much time together. however it has fallen apart for reasons im not 100% sure on. on moday we had a talk about it where he basically said he didnt want to get so serious with someone so quick and didnt want to hurt me so i replied saying i just wanted it to be the same. so we went home together and it was basically normal that night and in the morning. however later things were awakrd and got angry with him so again we have kind of broken down. i dont know what to do as spending so much time with him has meant i am very attached and rely on him a lot during this difficult time of getting used to now living away from home alone. i dont know what to do and genuinely feel very sad and distracted the whole time. he is my closest friend here but i do think that i do want us to be together thou i know he doesnt feel this way....
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 October 2014):
 You should join clubs in your university. Meet more people because I am sure a lot of people there also miss home. There are counselors available too if you want to talk. Call home more often and get advice from your parents. You can still be his friend but don't let him be the only person you rely on. If one guy doesn't work out there are many more guys on campus. Good luck to you. In time you will be able to make your university your second home.
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