If I don't call her or ignore she is sad, so does she love me?

A male age 30-35, *rico writes:

I've being friend with a girl for quite a while. We do talk a lot whenever we're together. She gets amused to every of my jokes. She likes complimenting my physical features like am cute all the time i do prepare for an occassion. She compliments all of my pictures. Truly i do have deep feelings for this girl and she's very pretty. Even though i havn't confessed it to her,anytime i do call her on phone, i call sweet heart,she doesn't oppose but instead laughs on phone and admit it. Afterwards i do continously teasing like how a boy keeps on teasing his girl and she'll keep laughing ceaselessly on phone. There was a time i was in a bad mood, i did ignore her when she greeted. For this reason she became angry too and ignored me for a while. Later that day, when she walked-passed me, i called her but she was silent i went to her and drew her forcefully and she came closer and i ask her the reason for her anger. She told me because i ignored her too and i appologised when we started communicating again. I then invited her on a date, she accepted and later we went out together and it was really nice and cool. We had a long chat. She told me so much about her people, friends and most of her secrets, about some guys who wanted to date her but she refused. To an extent of even telling me how my cousin has tried dating her and she objected. This made my feelings to go deeper for the girl and i buckled up to tell my affection for her. On our next outing i decided to tell her. I told her there is something i've being longing to tell her. She was so eager and anxious to this speech, she went ahead asking me whether am shy to say it as if she knew my mind. I finally let the cat out of the bag. She thought for a while and objected to it. I felt so relaxed but still played on. I bought her some presents and she was happy with me as if nothing happened. We had another date again. There i decided to be reserved. She initiated most of the conversation. She asked me if i still do love my ex who is a friend to her friend, i replied no asking me if am sure and i still maintained my answer. She asked me if i do feel bad about guys calling her i admitted. Some few days after, i put her on test by ignoring her again for a while to see her actions. She became so downcasted that whenever she sees me she becomes downcasted. I still do feel for her. I decided to confront if she's angry towards my action to her she replied yes. I ask her why she was angry. She told me in a low tone she felt that am regretting dating her that if am tired of her i should call her and tell her and tell her rather than avoiding her as if we're quarreling. I consoled her telling her that i have no regret whatsoever dating her that am proud being with her. She relaxed and we started relating again. Please dear kind readers, i need your advice i love this girl does she love me too as i do and am i moving on well with her. Thanks for your cooperation.

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