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Should I wait for her or should I make the move?

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Question - (21 October 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2013)
A male South Africa age 41-50, *tatic writes:

Hi there..

I got out of a long relationship 5months ago.. I haven't seen anyone since then. I met a great girl once and since then we.ve been cahtting everyday and flirting a lot.. The problem was that she had a boyfriend at that time and I didn't want to get in the middle of it.. She left him a few days ago but seems to be ignoring me. Maybe its just cause she's fresh out a relationship or was I just entertainment at the time. She seemed to be really into me...if I didn't text her she would actually get upset... Now she's quiet...what should I do? Should I wait for her or should I make the move? I'm confused.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (21 October 2013):

I'd give her some space, personally. She probably isn't in the right frame of mind to begin dating only a couple of days after breaking up with her boyfriend.

After that you can contact her. Don't wait for a girl to contact you unless you're 100% sure she will.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2013):

Starlights agony auntIf she's quiet and acting out of character I wouldn't bother to make a move and contact her.

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