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anonymous
writes:I dont know if im a lesbian or not. Or bisexual. I'm totally lost. I like a man right now, but he treats me so crappy. I have been with women before as a teenager, and dated them, even cried over one. But I thought it was for sure a phase and that I only like men now. Because the thought of having sex with a woman has grossed me out for a while now..Well lately this one girl has been so nice and affectionate towards me. And I feel this feeling like she's an absolute sweetheart, and someone i might actually want around my 2 year old. I really feel attatched to her. But im scared to think i might be homosexual... my dad would not approve. I love men, but dont at the same time. Can anyone help with these feelings I feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe says she loves to cuddle with me. She is bisexual..tells me how beautiful some features of mine are, etc. So its definitely romantic. The thiught of sex with a woman grosses me out because the last one I was with, was disgusting when I went down there.
I would more than likely have sex with her. When I say I dont like men, I just mean they really annoy me. Im attracted to them sexually, but never really put forth the effort to stay with one. Theyve all treated me kinda crappy. I just get tired of them, fast. I know, its really confusing lol.
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reader, shooter26 +, writes (21 October 2013):
if the guy teats you crappy then dump him. if the girl treats you like you wnat to be treated keep her... simple. as far as being bi, its for you to decide.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 October 2013):
 If the thought of having sex with a woman grosses you out, I doubt you are a lesbian or bisexual.
Maybe your confusion stems from the way they treat you, the man being a jerk and the woman being a sweetheart.
When you say you love men but don't at the same time, are you just thinking about this particular guy? He's not all men, just as this woman is not all women. There are other men out there who are gentlemen and treat people well, you know.
Does the relationship with the woman feel as though it's a romantic one or is she just being a nice person and a good friend? Do you want to be sexually intimate with her? If you do not, then you aren't attracted to her 'that way,' and are merely platonic friends.
Is there any reason you can't simply wait for the right person to come along before getting into a sexual relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2013): While to me, you do sound like you are bi-sexual. But are in some sort of denile. If you wanna be with a woman then go and see what it is like if you still like it then great, your bi. If not find a new man that will treat you better.
And as for you dad. If he dose not approve, tuff. You are who you are and he is losing out.
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