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writes:Okay so last year I really liked this guy and I had a really strong feeling he felt the same about me cause I could tell by the way he acted. He's really shy and I understand cause I am also, he says hi to me every time he sees me, but after I saw him at my friends party we spoke and he pretended like he couldn't remember who I was? Also he gave me a hug after so I thought he was just being weird- I thought it was odd he said that cause he kept asking if I was okay Everytime he saw me whilst at the partyThe problem now is when we've returned to uni he completely ignores me all he does is stare he sees me and avoids eye contact and doesn't say a word to me I don't really understand what his problem is, did I do some thing wrong? I tried to talk to him but he looks really nervous or doesn't say much now he doesn't speak to me at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2013): You think because someone says hi, that means he really likes you? That means he likes to say hi, that's all.
Don't frustrate yourself with "shy" people who send mixed signals. It's childish and annoying. Who has time for stupid guessing-games?
He is being friendly and polite. He may have little interest otherwise. Take ignoring you as a signal he's not interested.
You say you could tell he liked you by the way he acted. You give no details of how he acts. It sounds like you have a crush, and you are acting on a hunch.
That's not enough. He is embarrassed that you are being too friendly in front of people, when he hardly knows you.
You need to know more from a guy than a few smiles and hellos. If he ignores you around other people. Ignore him altogether. Don't let him make you look foolish.
You're reading too much into it.
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