Now that I'm losing him I realize that he's great

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

where to I start? i meet one of my brother-in-law's friends earlier this year. He tried to get with me but at the time i wasn't interested. After a few months I decided to called him. we were talking for a month or so. by the way i live in usa and he live in Dominican republic. I went to see him this pass weekend. The weekend didn't go as i planned. i had a good time but he was so different then i thought. he treated me very while but he wasn't as affectionate or loving as he appeared and on sunday when i tried to give him some he just nicely told me that it was ok, just to go asleep. at first i assumed that it was the age difference. i'm 29 and his 47. then it didn't make sense to me because on Friday we had sex he seem to love it and then why he wouldn't want to do it again. I got back home on Monday night. he hasn't called me or return my emails. finally today i called and he answer. he told me he'll call me back he was at a lunch with a client. but hasn't. i just needed help to figure out what to do? because before i thought i didn't want him because we are so different but now that im losing him i realize i want him and its killing me because he is such a good man that i can't believe he would ignore me like that. please help me figure out if i should let him go or fight for it?

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