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Now that I'm losing him I realize that he's great

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Question - (7 November 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2013)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

where to I start? i meet one of my brother-in-law's friends earlier this year. He tried to get with me but at the time i wasn't interested. After a few months I decided to called him. we were talking for a month or so. by the way i live in usa and he live in Dominican republic. I went to see him this pass weekend. The weekend didn't go as i planned. i had a good time but he was so different then i thought. he treated me very while but he wasn't as affectionate or loving as he appeared and on sunday when i tried to give him some he just nicely told me that it was ok, just to go asleep. at first i assumed that it was the age difference. i'm 29 and his 47. then it didn't make sense to me because on Friday we had sex he seem to love it and then why he wouldn't want to do it again. I got back home on Monday night. he hasn't called me or return my emails. finally today i called and he answer. he told me he'll call me back he was at a lunch with a client. but hasn't. i just needed help to figure out what to do? because before i thought i didn't want him because we are so different but now that im losing him i realize i want him and its killing me because he is such a good man that i can't believe he would ignore me like that. please help me figure out if i should let him go or fight for it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2013):

Well you were used. He's a gross old man- wise up! Your too young, pretty and full of potential. Plus, why sleep with him? You don't even know him really.

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A female reader, sugarplum786 South Africa +, writes (8 November 2013):

sugarplum786 agony auntHoney, he is not into you and you were just a trophy. He has no called and responded to your messages. Let him go. I don't think you into him either, its more of wanting something you cant have.

Its time to put this down to a one night stand and never contact him again.

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