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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey..OkMy boyfriend and I have been together for a month, I'm 16 and he is 18 we are both virgins and have not done anything other than had a handjob and been played with abit In past relationships, we were mates for ages but yeh, basically we aren't gonna have sex yet, but we wanna do other things too eachtother, a few nights ago I was drunk and we were messing around he was sober and I decided to give a bj, he said he loved it and the next day I was kinda abit weird but I accepted it and I didn't mind doing it, we were talking about the fact that he wanted to pleasure me by going down on me, I warned him he wouldn't like it and he would freak out but he was certain he wanted to do it. Earlier tonight we were alone, messing around as usual and he wanted to go down on me, I tried making sure it was what he wanted, and he said he did the room was pitch black, he layed me down pulled down my trousers and underwear after fingering me for a while and kissed my stumoch, I was worried what he was gonna think but I thought it would be ok seeing as he wouldn't be able to see...me... But he got to my vagina... We were laughing (we never stop laughing but like in a cute way) and he was 'ready' then he was still laughing he put his head centimetres from my clit and stopped I said 'your freaked out arnt you' he said 'I'm sorry' still kinda laughing he came up to the top again, and just tried to finger me again, after a while I got up and didn't say much he asked what was wrong and it was alittle weird after, we sort of avoided talking about it but I kept saying 'I knew you would freak out' he was like 'I didn't freak out, I wanted to but it was too dark I couldn't see and I had to go to work' this was true:/ but I couldn't help feeling embarrassed, we were acting normal with eachtother, he left mine not long after that, he's still working and we are bound to talk about it later but I don't wanna argue with him about it but I want to bring up the fact I'm disappointed seeing as how I go down on him but he wouldn't do the same for me, I said 'you clearly didn't want to' and he said he did and he loves me but he said he will next time How should I talk to him about this???? Please help thanks xx
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reader, Miss.Cupid  +, writes (8 November 2013):
 I know you're only 16. I don't want to be an old fashioned and tell you that you're too young. So ill just say this. Are you afraid that he may not like you after this? Because it sounds like you're insecure about what he may think. Take things slow and if it leads to him going down on you let it only if you are comfortable. I understand you're only trying to satisfy his needs. But satisfy yourself as we'll. if its something you want to go through with then do so. Good luck!
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