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writes:should i have sex with my cousin hes 4 years older than me im 17 hes 21 nearly 22.Me and my cousin have been having a special connection for years a couple of years back we kissed and i touched his penis we both remember that night till this day.Last night we was speaking and it just turned dirty planning to fuck each other we was sending dirty pictures, we both feel the same way but is having sex with his a bad thing ?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 November 2013):
 I think you should be VERY VERY wary.
How icky is it that a 19 year old takes advantage of a 14 year old?! It's STILL Icky at 21!
And this is a relative? Just eww.
If you can't see yourself having sex with anyone else, then wait til you are 18, maybe a few years will knock some sense in you while you wait.
Honestly, though... if you have doubts how about you ask your parents.......
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reader, Tamz +, writes (8 November 2013):
I think you shouldn't as what will your family say? And what if its not worth it in the end.Personally I think you should just either just stop or tell a family member if it still carries on :) xx
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 November 2013):
 I wouldn't recommend it.
Also, do not send him any pictures of you. They can and will be used against you. Maybe he wont send them to anyone right now, but if you and him have a fight he might show others to get back at you. Or, a friend of his might start looking through the pictures and send them to others.
So, just do NOT send pictures. Dirty texts, go ahead, but no pictures!
As for sex, probably not. Since you have to ask, it shows you have doubts. When in doubt, don't buy.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (8 November 2013):
 A couple of years ago, when you were 14-15, you kissed and touched his penis. He was 19-20. No OP, don't have sex with him. Bad, bad idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2013): No!! Stop talking to him!!!
Seriously, block his number, delete him on facebook etc. That's the only way you'll be able to move on.
What your parents say if you slept with your cousin!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2013): Losing your virginity to your cousin... you'd heavily regret it, I mean in ten years time you'll have to attend his wedding day. Eulgh how awkward will that be
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2013): Put aside the fact you are cousin's. Your 17 and he is almost 22. You said a couple of years ago you touched him making you 15 and him almost 20 that in its self is a but wrong. I mean a 15 year old and a 20 year old being sexual. Think about it if it was someone that you know and it wouldn't sound right to you either.Now the fact you ARE cousins. If anyone found out people, your family, would be involved whether you like it or not. Everyone would (rightfully) have an opinion and your actions would affect everone, if they found out. Also your age when it comes to having sex doesn't come into it. Your of age and can have sex with who you like... Even you cousin (it's no illegal) If I was you I would stop because I would be worried if someone would find out and not just your family what and friends and neighbours. But if you do PLEASE USE PROTECTION. Tho by law you can have sex with your cousin, if you was to become pregnant by him the chances of your baby having some kind of disorder (physical or mental) if very much greatly increased.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (8 November 2013):
Of course you'd remember touching your cousin's penis.
Look; I fall into the category that two adults can do whatever they want as long as it's consensual and not hurting anyone else.
In this case you're not an adult and you'd most likely be hurting some family members so I'd recommend at least waiting until you're 18.
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reader, misssunshine  +, writes (8 November 2013):
 first of all I can see that your age is 16-17 so are you ready for sex? and with cousin? absolutely no !! I think its terrible idea ,you should stop texting with him and all that kinky stuff...and he as a more mature man should know that !! my advice is for you to talk to your mom or older sister or aunty and tell them what's going on, because its seems to me your cousin just wants to use you for sex... be smart girl!!good luck
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