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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im starting to really fall for one of my close friends. Were together all the time, we share the same group of friends and I was never interested in him in this way but a few weeks ago at our friends halloween party he said goodbye to me and when he kissed me on the cheek it was just so sexy and I just wanted more. I know it sounds crazy that I obsessed over a kiss on the cheek maybe its because I was really drunk but whatever the reason was it just made me look at him differently. Since then I cant stop thinking of him, at first I thought it was maybe just a lust thing. Yes sex is defiantly on my mind when I think of him but thats just half of it, I really noticed how much of a sweetheart he is and I love that we have so much in common well we are friends after all, he's a Sagittarius just like me, and everytime we hangout the feelings just get stronger. Sometimes I get a feeling that hes a little interested but he never said or did anything that encourging. I just dont know what to do to show him that I am really interested and maybe take things to the next level without making the friendship awkward. Does anyone have any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2013): In my opinion it is always good to start as friends and he definitely likes you if he kissed you. I still think about a guy I had a date with we were both nervous him more than me but he just grabbed me, hugged me, and kissed me. So I know what it's like when you fantasize and obsess about it.Maybe you are hoping for more with this guy obviously and may still want to keep the friendship strong. Just make sure that he has feelings for you. You don't want to rush into a sexual relationship and be hurt. I don't know if you guys have been on a date with each other because that's a great way to get to know someone better. You could ask him, "How do feel about going a date, no pressure just something fun?" See how he responds. Give him a nice compliment on something, the way he looks, what he's wearing. You are young and it's nice to hear that you are in a friendship with someone. Getting a guy to be more open is sometimes a challenge and as women we are more emotional so he may not have given you any actual signs that he wants more than friendship. Be happy with the time you are spending with him. I hope it works out.
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