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*he last angel
writes:ok ill try to summarize my problem, i fell in love with my high school classmate he was kind of shy person and i had a complete trust in him but when high school was finished and we went to college every thing changed one day he took me to a very romantic place and told me that he had a crush for a girl in his college she was a blonde and i am a brunette and he said that this was one of the reasons why he fell in love with her, but he told me that he loved me and he wanted to stay with me so we stayed together but then i discovered that he likes to flirt with other girls so we had alot of fights and he used to tell me that they were prettier this was in 2011 as years passed he changed and became more devoted to me but now i find difficulties in trusting him and i became a complete disaster i always suspect his every single action and i dont believe him when he says that am beautiful and i think he is getting bored of the way i react whenever he deals with any girl i'am still in love with him but i cant help feeling jealous,and mad from every single girl he meets or talk to how can i control this jealousy and how ca i trust him again?
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (7 March 2013):
You just gave many reasons to dump him really. Move on. You deserve better.
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reader, the last angel +, writes (4 March 2013):
the last angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your replies, and to answer your questions "why i stayed with him?!", first because i love him i dont know why but i do, second because he tells me every thing even if when he makes mistakes and i think alot of men wouldnt tell their girlfriends what they had done,and third because he tries to change like when i first knew about the blonde girl i was so mad and i asked him to remove her from his accounts and to stop talking to her and he accepted off course not from the first time we spent a year fighting about different girls but now he is different he stopped talking to that girl and he keeps limits when he deals with girls, but still i have 4 problems1-when he sees a girl most of times he thinks she's prettier than me and he tells me so2-i became madly jealous also i lost my self confidence when it comes to the way i look although i'am pretty, i follow fashion and so on.. and now i dont feel pretty anymore3- his friends they hate me although i met them only once but they think am not that beautiful( they have their standards for beauty like unless u looked like jennifer laurance then ur not their type) also they are fed up with my jealousy and they also tell him its ok if you flirt with other girl men supposed to do so, or its ok if you liked the way other girls look 4- i lost my trust in him could he change?! or could we both change because i hate the way i feel jealous of every single girl in the street
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reader, Glacier +, writes (3 March 2013):
This guy is obviously very shallow and the comparisons he made about you and the other girls is really outrageous.
What makes him so special that you love him?
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reader, Pr3tty_in_pink86  +, writes (3 March 2013):
"he took me to a very romantic place and told me that he had a crush for a girl in his college she was a blonde and i am a brunette and he said that this was one of the reasons why he fell in love with her"Strange, first sign of abnormality. "he used to tell me that they were prettier this was in 2011"What the hell are you doing with this guy? This isn't normal.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 March 2013):
 You never refer him as a boyfriend and there is a reason. I don't think he loves you. He doesn't have what it takes to stay in a relationship. He can flirt whenever he wants, but just not within a relationship. I saw this relationship is 2 years old. I would not have gone that far. Let him have those pretty girls and let them suffer with jealousy. You go find yourself a guy who likes you and only you.
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