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writes: Sex with my ex boyfriend was horrible…we had no chemistry…I was shy to tell hm what I wanted and he was also shy. Since our break up, I still fantasize about having sex with him every single day and imagine this to be good sex whilst i know he kills me sex drive… and I am unable to have any feelings for any other guy or imagine sex with them. Is this normal?
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reader, llifton  +, writes (3 March 2013):
 it just sounds to me like you're not over him. just because you two had bad sex together doesn't mean that you didn't love him or still enjoy the physical closeness of being with him physically. i would imagine that's why you're still fantasizing about him; you still love him.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (3 March 2013):
 It sounds like you're still in love with him. Maybe it's the connection that you miss.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (3 March 2013):
 You also might be thinking of how things could have been, had you communicated what you wanted...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2013): Of course it's normal. He's the last person you were intimate with so mentally he's going to act like a point of reference. It might have been shit sex, but it was still sex. You're not going to forget the feeling, the smell, the warmth etc. Doesn't mean anything.
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