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writes:2 months ago I broke up with this girl, it's a complicated story of why we broke up and what happened. It didn't end well to say the least, but that's because of bad consideration on my part.Well, last night my friend saw her out and spoke to her and he asked if she still had feelings for me and she said she always will, but she's tried everything and it's clear i've moved on so that's what she's trying to do. He then said she should talk to me if she still feels that way he and she said that she didn't want to because she knows her feelings are futile to me and they will pass.What does she mean by her feelings are just futile to me?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 March 2013):
 It means she has been watching too much Star Trek, Obviously.
It means whatever feeling she had/has for you makes no difference. She (my guess) think that it really doesn't matter because too much stuff happened to ever make the two of you work out again.
She seems to still care a good deal though.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 March 2013):
 It means she doesn't trust you any longer and that trying to fix things isn't going to work. The trust is gone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2013): She doesn't think you care about her or her feelings. Whatever you did (or didn't do) it was bad enough that she's putting her feelings for you aside and not giving you another chance.So, if you really do like this girl, you are going to have to change drastically before you even try to win her back. I'm assuming you do still care because you care about what she meant.But, unless you've changed to be whatever it was she wanted, don't waste any more of her time or yours.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (3 March 2013):
 She means that she still has feelings for you but there is no point in her having these feelings for you because they won't have any bearing on your feelings or the chances of you getting back together.
She is implying that you already know she has these feelings, and she sees the situation as hopeless because she sees you moving on even though you know she still likes you. So her feelings are futile, hopeless, pointless.
If you still have feelings for her and would like to try again, now would be the time to tell her.
Good luck.
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