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writes:I love my 16 year old cousin is that wrong Why I love herI love her in so much and I want her bad, when our family has gatherings me and her always are together and make each other laugh, in my point of view she is smart and funny and very pretty. One time when every one was asleep I got up and walked in her room (very quietly making sure not to wake her up) and while she was sleeping I kissed her. I don't just love her cause of that another time I was asleep then I got woke up by her and she kissed me. What I need help with After a few more of those experiences I have become sexually attracted to her, I don't no how to ask her to have sex what if she rejects me and that ruins our friend ship. What if our family finds outI'm so confused THANKS FOR READING •_•
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reader, LunaRedd +, writes (3 July 2013):
 You're a 13 year old boy, you are coming of age. It's understandable you have feelings for your older cousin. I'm sure she is beautiful, smart, and very nice to you, and those things attract you to her. But what you are not understanding, because you are so young is those feelings are temporary, they are not real. In your young and hormonal eyes they seem real but they are not. It is wrong and uncommon to feel sexual feelings for a relative. I advise you to not do anything you will regret in your older years. I also advise you seek help if you continue to have these feelings toward your cousin. This is not how society works, and there is a reason for that.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (18 June 2013):
This is a bad idea for so many good reasons. Just two:1 - For health/genetic reasons, being with a cousin is never a good idea. You are asking for health problems should there be any children.2 - At 13, I can say without fear of contradiction that you have not the slightest idea what real love and commitment is or entails. Right now, you have novel feeling, and its easy to confuse them with real love. Let me illustrate for you the difference:a) Thinking about someone a lot and wanting to be around them. (Novel feeling)b) Carrying someone to the toilet and wiping someones behind three times a day for them for the next 60 years because they were in a car accident and are now confined to a wheel chair. (Real love.)See the difference?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 June 2013):
 Here on DC ? Are you sure you got it right ? Different people have different opinions, but I can't think of ONE of the Aunts and Uncles, at least among the regulars, that would encourage a 13 y.o.to have sex.
Even without the complications of your case ( she being a first cousin, your parents freaking out etc.etc. Plus, you are courting rejection, she is 3 years older then you and at this age , to her, that's a huge difference, if you ask her , chances are that that she'll just laugh heartily in your face, or else she'll get mad and rat on you ).
Regardless, dude, you are THIRTEEN, that's statutory rape . It may be normal that you are all hormonal now, but , be patient .Explore through masturbation for now, there's nothing wrong with that.
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reader, Last of time56 +, writes (18 June 2013):
Last of time56 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI read a question before I made this question
It was about a 13 year old that loves his 18 year old cousin and a lot of people said he should have sex with her
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