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anonymous
writes: This guy is really stinking confusing! I am 17 and I know I should know all the rules when it comes to flirting and spotting guys who are just flirts. I don't know what he wants! I even looked up astrology to see if it is I guess normal in their world and he's a virgo...but has quite a few characteristics of the leo and libra cause even though he's like RIGHT in the middle. He said he realizes he does have a flirtatious personality and he said he doesn't mean for it to come out that way and that he's trying to work on it. Sometimes he's quiet around me and others as well. Then the next day he is like a complete ball of laughter and joking around. He is very clean in appearance. He does like nice stuff, but get's it for a good price. He does have this bored face...like serious but relaxed. He has this smirk smiley face when I look at him and then at times a big blown cheesy smile when he looks back at me. Then other times he will look right at me, and we make eye contact, and just go back to what he's doing and do nothing. I've known him for 3 years, but we don't speak even though he texts "Talk to you later". I'm not sure what to do, I can't read him. Though I read Virgo's are hard to express themselves. Please help me with this guy. I'm really not sure what I should do if not anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2013): Although many people may advise otherwise; I suggest you give up on people that send mixed signals. They're a waste of time and effort. They have too many insecurities to make any sense, and they're often socially inept.You do all the work, and they sit back and just look at you like the lights are on, and nobody's home. Even shy people get over shyness, when they get lonely enough, or like you enough. There are a few bone-heads out there that drive you crazy by giving you a "flickering light." You nearly make a fool of yourself trying to get their attention; and they still seem unaffected by all your efforts. You tell them outright you like them; and they act as if you're speaking a foreign language.Sometimes that's the polite way people use to keep you in the "friend zone." They pretend to be missing all the signals while you're flirting your brains out. They won't just come out and say they only want to be friends. Instead they just lead you on.Settle for being a friend, or just give up and ignore him. Make him come to you. Ignore him anyway. Boys want what they can't have. The harder it is to get you, the more they want you. Don't get carried away. Just make him have to chase you a little.You'll find some people who still keep you confused; by singling you out of a crowd, and doing silly things to get you to notice them. They act all happy if you flirt.They even flirt back. That is only to keep you interested. Sometimes they just want to be a part of your crowd.They're human. They're trying to avoid getting dumped or left out. Rejection sucks; even if you're turned down for friendship. They may have tried hooking up with everyone else around you; so they go for the one that shows the most attention. The one easiest to approach.In his case; he likes playing with your feelings and wants to keep you guessing. So just ignore him. He's too childish.
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