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writes:My boyfriend travel for 6month with no contact, not quite long I met this new guy in my life that love every bit of me, now my gone away bf is bad, I promise to wait 4 him, but it a new story now, my new bf knows about him and he won't give me any chance to speak with him, his so scared of losing me to him, and I still feel like seeing him secretly what should I do? My bf delete his number on my phone anyways cause he won't stop calling and he knows already that am with another guy, don't know how to go about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (7 February 2013):
 Well you have to make a choice - which guy do you want?
What you have done is pretty awful, you promised to wait for boyfriend number 1 but when someone else came along you jumped straight into a relationship with him! You are hurting both men and that is a horrible thing to do, so you need to make a choice once and for all - who do you want to be with?
If you want to be with boyfriend number 1, then you need to break up with boyfriend 2. If you want to stay with boyfriend 2, then you need to ignore boyfriend 1's calls and do as boyfriend 2 says - dont contact him and forget about him.
You have only got yourself to blame for this mess, you cant have 2 boyfriends at the same time so you need to pick 1 and stick with your decision. Playing games like this will only ever backfire on you, so try and be a good person, only ever have 1 boyfriend at a time and dont mess people around.
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