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writes:I need to help with my situationCan someone explain why a man would still want to be your friend after you have dumped them by email? My ex doesn't resent me or anything, I don't understand. It makes me feel like he felt nothing for me. How can he still want to be my friend? If he showed some kind of hatred towards me I would like that. It's like I'm not good enough to provoke emotions in him. Reply to this Question
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (7 February 2013):
 Dont be friends with someone that can shut the door on your face with just an email. You think if he comes back he has changed, highly unlikely.
Move on because you risk your heart being broken all over again.
He did not think about your feelings when he sent the email and how your heart would have broken and the tears that you shed.
Move on, he does not deserve a second chance.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (7 February 2013):
Hi there. Perhaps he still wants to be friends with you, because he might be hoping that you change your mind and want to go back with him again.
It kind of makes sense, I guess.
You would naturally expect that he would be a little hurt about how you ended it with him - by email.
Perhaps he even thought you didn't really mean what you said, and that it was in the heat of the moment.
So he might not have taken it very seriously.
Were you a couple for very long?
And how serious would you say the relationship was - prior to the breakup?
Had you ever discussed the future?
Or wasn't it a relationship for long enough for that to happen?
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