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Why did my cousin's friend indicated interest one day yet the next day he was disinterested?

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Question - (6 February 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2013)
A female Japan age 22-25, *insleigh writes:

Hi! Please help me. I'm so confuzzled.

Okay so my cousin's best friend started messaging me on Facebook again and asked for my number.

So I gave it to him and from that day on we've texted every single day! It was one day he asked if I liked him I said yes and he said awww.

I think he liked me.

So we texted even more (sorry for this is too). But one day he sent a text with a winky and a comment and I texted what? And he never texted me back.

And it's day four and still nothing!

Is he embarrassed? Or what.

It hurts to think if he was playing with my emotions. He's so sweet.

But why would he do this? Should I text him? (I really don't want too) :/ I really would love to know why is he not texting me anymore.

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A female reader, Kinsleigh Japan +, writes (24 February 2013):

Kinsleigh is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Kinsleigh agony auntNo no my other cousin which is a female.

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A female reader, Kinsleigh Japan +, writes (23 February 2013):

Kinsleigh is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Kinsleigh agony auntWell it turns out the reason why he stopped texting me was because he was texting my cousin and she knows I like him. Ain't that f'd up?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2013):

It seem's like he does like you and he probably thought that you meant what in a bad way as its sometimes hard to know how the person meant what they said when it through text or email. So you should pick up from

where you left and and get back into contact with him and show him that you still like him and are still interested in him.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthe's not embarrassed... it got boring

it's only 4 days but the truth is it was just fun and games for a few days.... it wasn't anything serious...

I don't think he was playing with your emotions... I don't think he was using you or trying to hurt you... being a teen is about exploring and figuring things out....

if you don't want to text him then don't.

He's not texting you any more because he either has nothing to say or it stopped being fun.

No harm no foul

just keep moving along

you will obviously run into him again... when you do, be pleasant... smile and be casually nice... that's all you need and this will be behind you.

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