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writes:Having a little dilemma here... I meet guy at a sports training event about 2 months ago - we didn't talk but made eye contact with each other. A few days later, I saw him at the gym. We started talking - and evenually exchanged numbers. The next day, he asked if I wanted to go out for a friendly dinner (nothing too serious) - I said yes. So, we went out for a casual dinner. I had an amazing time - never has a guy made me smile and laugh so much. We spoke about a lot of things like, our background, relationships and our families. He also, mentioned his ex-girlfriend of 3 months who he has recently broken up with. He told me that he felt that she was in the relationship for all the wrong things and really wants to get back with him (she kept on sending him texts while we were out). I found that he was quite similar to me, as we both are shy, cheeky and a bit flirty. At the end of the evening, I felt a strong connection with him - but I was very unsure about the situation because he lives in australia and, was only in london for a event. With that issue in the back of my head, we literally called, send texts, factime each other every day. He also, invited me to his event but I was unable to go. So, we decided to meet up for the final time as he was leaving the next day. We hanged out in his hotel room, watched a couple of movies and we kissed. I have never had such a incredible feeling before - only knowing him for 2 weeks, I have felt I have known him for years. But, I have to accept that he lives different country to me and it might never just work out. Since, he has gone back - we talk nearly everyday and wants me to come over for new years. I'm a bit confused on what to do because I'm starting to really like him and how much I would like this to work - I'm really unsure.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (7 December 2013):
 If it had been longer that two weeks since you met him I would be saying go for it! But two weeks is such a short time and it is only a matter of months since he broke up with his girlfriend I think you should wait just a little bit longer and give yourself some time to get to know him a little better.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (7 December 2013):
 Oh, so it's your turn now to travel? I would not go to Australia because the airfare is just too much. How often can you do this and can you really afford to do it and how many times? I would politely decline and thank him for such a wonderful time. You had not agreed to an LDR and he didn't spend that trip for you, it was for a training event so you are not obligated to visit him. Flings are intense because you have to cram in all the conversations and sentiments in a limited time. When a relationship starts this way you can predict what happens when it becomes long term and the reciprocation of love becomes an obligation and not an outpour of interest and curiosity.
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