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writes:Hello, I've previously asked a question on this particular situation, however since then it has progressed positively thankfully, and i'm now in need of some more advice. Here is the question i previously asked:'I'm going to sound like an absolute idiot for asking this but, can you love, or have strong feelings for someone you have never met?I'll tell the story. We started talking a good five months ago, he lives in the same town as me but i had never actually met him. I've seen pictures of him, and some of my friends know him. For about two months we literally text non stop all day every day, then it started to stop a bit, but we did still text a bit.I think about him quite a lot, and when i'm not something usually sets me off. I will also get a little jealous if i see a picture of him on facebook with another girl :/ The other day i went nightclubbing for my friends birthday, in one of the pubs i thought i recognized him, just as i was going into another pub, i received a text off of him asking if i was round town because he thought he'd seen me. I text back saying yes i was in town. Then he came into the pub i was in and i went to the toilet and he was stood outside, i pretended i hadn't noticed, and walked into the toilet. When i came out he was still stood there, again i pretended i hadn't noticed, as i was walking off he ran up to me asking me my name, i told him and he said do you recognize me? I said i didn't just because i was embarrassed, and not 100% sober. He text me after wanting to meet up but we had to go home because my friend was being sick as it was her first night. It was only a quick two minute thing, and i was having these feelings before that happened. Please help me with this situation. Can you love/have feelings for someone you've never met?' Since this I told a few other friends about the situation, as i was upset that we hadn't kept in contact, all my friends told me to send him a message telling him how i felt. Eventually after i'd plucked up the courage i did and he said he was sorry, he enjoys talking to me and to text him the next morning. Since then we have kept in contact almost every day. Now we are finally meeting up around town in two weeks. However this time i will be prepared as i'll be expecting him. He was the one who suggested we meet that night as we were both going out. I find doing it this way is going to calm my nerves greatly, my friends are going to be there, which means no awkward silences his friends are going to be there which are going to make us both feel more comfortable and relaxed. Now here is my question, how do i impress him? What do i wear? what do i say? help! much appreciated.
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reader, sallyanne +, writes (7 December 2013):
Well by the sounds of it he already likes u. And when it comes to what to wear I would suggest I pair of over the knee boots with a nice smart dress which could look great with leggings as its getting cold. U don't want to look like your trying to hard but enough to get the woo factor. Then just be your self a guy loves a confident women. Hope this helps and good luck x
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