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writes:My bf of 2 years never has time for me, whenever I call he picks up a fight and tells me not to call him ever. After 2 or 3 days he calls me back and apologizes and the same thing happens again. Whenver i try to talk to hiim regarding this, he brushes me off.I am so tired of he treating me very badly. He never calls, always finds one reason or other not to hang out with me, never includes me in any of his future plans. I invested so much in this relation, I love him a lot but it always looks like I'm the one always trying to keep this relationship together. Pls help me, what should I do now? I'm confused and I don't want to leave him. I tried once to break up with him, but I couldn't do it. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 September 2012):
 Wishing he would change is nice, but not realistic. Einstein said a lot of smart things in his life, this one is one of my favorites:
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Albert Einstein
You keep "forgiving" him and he keeps hurting you, it's vicious cycle that will NEVER end unless YOU (or he) end the relationship.
I understand that two years seem like a big "investment" but honestly, IF the way he treats you is what YOU get out of it maybe it's an investment that really need to be let go. Maybe it is time to STOP wasting more time on something that will not improve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2012): You are addicted to this man and the way he treats you, you need to get help in order to let him go and move on, he is not serious about you and has no respect for your feelings.
Get help and move on, in teh long rum you are going to be an emotional wreck and all alone as this guy is not that into you.
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