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female
age
30-35,
*Dazzling
writes:My boyfriend of nearly 3 months and I are both 18. We used to talk just about everyday. Then my phone was stolen which pretty much coincided with exam week, during which we barely talked. He said it was because of exam week, which was understandable, except he said that instead of studying he just got distracted and played games (and didn't study). The weekend after exams ended, we spent the day together at his house and we were fine, and being cute together and all.This week we barely talk in person in class anymore. Conversation is kind of awkward at school, but not so much out of school when we can be more affectionate and open (communicating). Since my phone got stolen, the only way for us to communicate apart from in person is Facebook since I can no longer text.It's been a week since we hung out, and he never messages me first on Facebook anymore. We are still together, and kiss goodbye at school. But we never talk after school anymore. I miss him and I've told him so, but still no talking at night anymore. I know he is very addicted to his games but... why would he not talk to me?
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reader, Foxglove  +, writes (29 September 2012):
It may also be possible that he has just gotten used to you initiating contact? Hope things work out for you. :)
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reader, lostinlovesoldier  +, writes (29 September 2012):
This is plain and simple. If a man wants to talk to you...he will. If he doesn't want to, he won't. If he has feelings for you, or respect, and he knows you are missing him, he would make a conscious effort to contact you...whether it be by landline or other means. I would talk to him directly and if nothing changes I would say he has lost interest and is avoiding talking to you. and games are never a good excuse.
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reader, xgod +, writes (28 September 2012):
 Have you tried calling him from a land-line phone?
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