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writes: Well this is about a relationship im in since 7 months...My gal is a rotary exchange student and that's how we met. I had never been in a relationship before this and neither has she..actually she has but she says it was hardly considerable. She is an American and im from India. She is a Christian and so am i. We met on Christmas and got into the relationship in January. It was all pretty fast. And she left back home in June. Its really hard since we are so far away and im not in a position to go to the US ..financially yet. I only get doubts when i think about that 'non-considerable relationship she had...she said she met him only a few times after she was in a relationship with him and they only kissed..thrice to be precise. Now i dont know about her past at home but she says she never was in another relationship and its hard to believe an 18 year old American say that..but i want to trust her and i know her family pretty well and they are pure Christians. trust and she isn't really into it that much! Our relationship is really going well at this point but i dont know what to think when i get these doubts about her past. And she will be going to college soon away from her family in another state so that's what worries me cuz i know until she's with her family she is really devout about god but im scared about when she's won't be. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks! But if only I knew how to deal with this! :(
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (21 July 2012):
You need to deal with your doubts because this is really a relationship killer. You are not emotionally secure reason you doubt but you need to stop this feeling or else you will end miserable and may lose her.
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