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anonymous
writes:A little while ago I cheated on my boyfriend when I was very very drunk. It was a stupid thing to do and I regret it so so much. It meant absolutely nothing to me so I decided not to tell my boyfriend about it. However the guilt is eating me up, what can i do?!
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reader, anonymus2012  +, writes (16 December 2012):
anonymous 123 is totally right. you should rethink your behaviour while drinking or your drinking habits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012): "what can i do?!"
If you want boyfriend to remain under the mistaken impression that he is in an exclusive, monogamous sexual relationship with you, then you are morally obligated to protect his health and well being by insisting he use a condom every time you have sex, or better yet, cease having sex with him completely.
I'd also seek treatment for your alcohol problem, or else you risk further jeopardizing your relationship by hopping into bed with other random strangers any time you get "very very drunk." Drinking to the point where you lose the capacity to make sound, rational decisions leading you do act stupidly and regretfully can easily compromise your health and safety in an instant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012): i'm completly agree with Anonymous123. she's right.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (15 December 2012):
 The guilt will continue to consume you unless you decide to come clean. But that needs courage and I doubt if you can get yourself to do it. Also, no matter how horribly drunk you might be, you CANNOT possibly sleep with someone else, unless you want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012): Nothing, just live with the guilt if you're not going to tell him and get checked for STDs even if you used protection.
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