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writes:Okay well im starting to be really good friends with this girl at my school and she has a boyfriend for about 2 years. When i walk in the hallways at school he is always smiling and staring at me when she isn't looking, ill confess he is cute but i was at a basketball game and he bumped into me and his hand brushed my back/butt and i don't know what i should do, they have been going out for awhile and it would be horrible if they broke up if i told her what he has been doing. Please help me i don't know what to do!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 December 2012):
 I'm not sure she would believe you honestly, more like you might be reading more into his actions then what he meant.
The thing is he could be toying with you, to see how far you are willing to go, so I suggest you nip this in the bud. No groping, if he does tell him to keep his hands to himself.
When he looks at you in the hall ways, look away.
For now I would put him on "ignore" and see if he back off, if he doesn't I might talk to his GF.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 December 2012):
 I suggest you try this:
1. Take him aside, privately, some time ... and say to him: "I've perceived that you seem to give me a peculiar amount of attention... such as when you "brushed up against me" at the basketball game..... AND I think it's inappropriate.... and I'm willing to forget that it happened... on the condition that you acknowledge it, and confirm to me that YOU are happy to let it be forgotten... AND, then, I won't make a note to my best friend that YOU are a dog who she should drop like a bad habit..... Is that precise enough for you? ..... and do you agree?"
2. Assuming he sez: "Damn, girl, you sure are giving me a second chance to avoid making an a$s of myself and screwing up what is the best thing I've ever had going (dating your best friend).... So I'll consent to your conditions.... and will NOT screw up again... and will join you in forgetting this unpleasant situation that YOU have offered a "pass" to me, about...."
Then, life will go on... and your question will have been solved....
Good luck...
P.S. IF he sez: "Waddaya mean, about "brushing up against you"?????"... Then you say: "Well, bonehead, I gave you a chance to NOT screw up... but it looks like you're going to plunge ahead (and screw up) nonetheless... Good luck with your NEXT G/F... because MY best friend will probably be dumping your sorry a$s in the next few hours....."
Good luck, again....
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