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Do I sign up with him or ignore him?

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Question - (15 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

What should I do? Please help. I'm upset:(?

This guy works at my gym and he has been staring at me for months now.

He's always watching me and even watch me through the doors when I'm in a gym class.

Anyway, I went up to him yesterday and asked him a question. We got chatting and he said I can sign up for personal training with him if I want.

He asked if I had his number I said no and I asked if he knows my name and he said he has my number on his phone. Wft?

He doesn't like me does he? He's friendly and chatty to all the girls there but he doesn't talk to me. But he keeps looking at me and looking away when I catch him.

What should I do? Do I sign up with him or ignore him? I really like him:(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012):

Don't sign up with him just ask him out. OP he could just be getting you to sign up for personal sessions for more money and maybe he looks at you because it's so obvious you like him.

If his boss finds out he's signing up girls for personal sessions to seduce them then he'll lose his job.

If you're interested then don't pay money for his time just ask him out. That way you don't spend hours getting close to him and having touch you to teach you proper form etc. only to find out he was only interested in getting you to start paying extra.

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (15 December 2012):

mimisoph3 agony auntHis definitely interested in you. He wouldn't be acting that way if he didn't. I wouldn't say he likes you just yet.But his definitely interested in getting to know you. You caught his eye so his just flirting with you. It's your choice wheater or not you'll want to sign up.But definitely start talking to him and be flirty as well, if you are interested. All the signs are there, the ball is on your court now.

good luck!

love mimi

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012):

if you really like him and you feel theres chemistry go for it, you have nothing to loose. well maybe a gym membership is things go terribly wrong. not big deal

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