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writes:Shortly after my bf and I had a huge fight and pretty much broken up one of his friends who is a girl came up to me.She thought she knew all about me and the situation. She started calling me ugly and other putdowns. She said she might as well admit that she likes him and was very angry. I don't know her personally though online she sent me several friend requests but never talked to me. I feel like it was a way for her to try to get closer to him?!I wonder if he and I were basically broken up and not speaking why she'd say that? Someone said she is jealous, but at that point there was Nothing for her to be jealous of.....?
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reader, Abella +, writes (25 June 2011):
 The huge fight must have been horrible. While not involved with this girl, I think your boy friend may have been confiding in her, but only talking, not a relationship. However she is NOT on your side. And who knows what advice he has been listening to, from her, when he has mentioned the relationship to her?
No doubt in the world she has taken his 'side' and no doubt in the world that she is very jealous of you. Trying to get close to you is classic behavior, whereby she wants to 'live' being cose to you, as a means to get closer to him and learn more about him.
Even if she is holding a torch for your guy he will soon discover her temper and that
She is Trouble.
Block her on your site.
And IF things calm down enough to talk to him ask him if he talks (talks, i am only thinking he talks) to her regularly? How else could she learn so much.
If yes, then calmly explain that out of respect for you, that you would prefer that any talks about your relationship should be between you and him.
He may come to see that he will need to block her too.
Hope things improve between you and your guy.
Abella
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