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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello.. well my boyfriend is Christian and i am a Muslim girl and we have been together for over 2 years.lately we have been talking about marriage and kids, but the problem is that i cant marry him because his not Muslims. lately we both been reading the quran together and learnt many islamic words from me, he even started to download quran, hadith and the prophet Mohammed story on him phone. Does this mean his planning to convert even though he knows that he cant marry me if he is Christian. i never asked im to convert and i dont even know how to.plz help
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 He sounds like a keeper who really loves you with all of his heart. Good luck to you both!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): no if he convert to islam i would marry him and that is the only way for us to marry, he even knows that. he even says sometimes that his muslim to other people. i know for sure he is the one for me and we both love and respect each other. ishallah he will convert and even if he doesnt i will still love him for what he is.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 June 2011):
Sounds like he loves you enough to contemplate converstion to Islam. Are you saying that even if he converts you can't marry him because he'll never be regarded as anything but a Christian, or if he converts, would you be able to then?
Also, and this is the most important. Do you *want* to marry him? If he converts, do you feel like he's the one for you? I ask this because it's easy to not want to marry someone and hide behind a cultural reason not to marry. If he's looking to convert and you don't really want to marry, you need to let him know before he goes through all of this. Remember, he has a family with expectations too.
If you are in love with him, want to marry him, and he wants to convert, you say you don't know how to? Best place to go is your mosque. I'm sure there are things they can teach you and your boyfriend on how to convert and what needs to be done.
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