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30-35,
*pendy
writes:What is wrong with me? when will I get better?I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be friends cos he thinks I am a nice person. and he's got a fuck buddy.I told him we can't be friends, cos I still love him. He just said okay. I hung up the phone and deleted him off my blackberry. My friends say I should get another guy to help get over him. But am not interested. All the guys I've been with broke my heart. Now I just wanna concentrate on work, college, friends and family. But it seems like the memories of our time together won't leave me alone. and the thought of him with someone else is killing me I know he doesn't feel the same cos he's. Not contacted me since and I've let it all go. So why can't I forget him? I hate leaving like this:( HUGS xx
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (25 June 2011):
aw i really feel it for you i have been through the same in time you will forget about him and you will meet someone who will treat you right just go out have fun and concentrate on enjoying life
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 It takes time to get over someone, more than just two months. It's not unnatural for you to grieve the loss. Stay single until you meet someone worthy of your love, that means someone special and not just the first and best that comes your way.
Going on dates helps you forget, meeting new people, traveling or doing something different with your look, to recreate yourself, all that helps. When the right man comes along he wont leave you, but want to make you happy by staying by your side.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 You know what you want to do...concentrate with work, college, family and friends. Go for it and do what you know is best for you.
If you want to direct your life to changes, you can. But you've got first to have control in your mind and your emotions. Means whenever you think about him, instantly distract yourself and think of what you want and where you want to focus your life. You are the one's who direct your thoughts and if you are really decided to make changes because you are hurting...you have the power to change.
Don't let your fears control you. Do what you know to make changes and stay committed. Be strong.
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reader, a_maldita +, writes (25 June 2011):
 Yes he is not worth wasting your precious time.. I had a very long time bf too but when he started dis respecting me I want to break his neg and get rid of him totally. So that's what I did at first feels like my whole world is falling apart but I know I will get over him in time. Don't rush for anything especially new relationship it won't help it will only make things worst for you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2011): I didn't have to read the whole thing to give you this answer. Yes, you will be fine it will hurt forever you might see him now and then or have him on your fb. Plain and simple if he left you, always see it as....he's a fuckin idiot, and he will never find no better than you. It might still kill you to see him, he might feel like he is missing out especially if he is young, but in the end you keep a positive attitude, things will come to you, possibly your soul mate...or him...if you decide to give him that chance...I wouldn't. Good luck! :)
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (25 June 2011):
 Hi
what a complete and utter jerk he is, f**k buddy!! who does he think he is a don?? That alone should have been enough for you to have gotten over him, to think this man has no respect for women. I dont think you should rus int another relationship just yet, because it will be a rebound not true. Arrange some girls nights out, let your hair down, have some fun, then you will start to remember how much your worth and put this creep behind you. His not worth the oxygen you breath hun trust me xxx
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