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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help, me and my Boyfriend of 5 months ( doesnt seem long,but 5 months being official, we loved each other long before we went out.) We are perfect together, he always speaks to me morning and day, always making sure im okay and random calls, texts saying "iloveyou" and real great times together out and about. We are serious, but we didnt rush right into sexual involvment, we were about to get there when he started talking to me less and not meeting up. i was upset but went with it hoping it was just a bad week, but i got a text fro, him saying he wants a break and he doesnt feel the love for me anymore, he wants to try and fix it, but he never sounds to sure, he says he likes being single, but it doesnt feel right ect ect. he said he needs to think about it for a while and then meet up and talk about it. that is my time to convince him to try again which im not sure he wants to do, i really dont understand why he suddenly wants a break or split, he even said i havent done anything wrong, its just when he couldnt talk or meet up with my that the lose of contact made him drift away from me, what can i do while he thinks about it and any advise on how i can get him to try again? anything, honestly anything will be very much appreciated! i dont want to loose him! i see a great future with him, he even said that before to. please, any advise, thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): sounds like he's found someone new - the sudden distancing, the "it's not you it's me" sort of thing.... when relationships don't work out on their own the disintegration is gradual, not sudden.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (25 June 2011):
i would try get to the bottom of why he is acting like this you can.t just fall out of love with someone ask him what he truly wants a great girlfriend who he loves and has good times wih or being single and playing about this will most likely be because his mates are single that is usually the reason boys act like this
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reader, Charlie555  +, writes (25 June 2011):
hypothetical :
He might have met another girl, but nothing happened yet so He keeps the door opened with you if it doesn't work out.
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take care of yourself, hang out, ignore him. Don't be afraid insecurity drives people away. I know your probably sad and torn apart, life can be a bitch(the faster you learn it the better).
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