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writes:Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel self concious about my sexual needs,and today told me i have a big appitite,and that i.m 'craven,but not glutinos'. I made a joke out of it by asking if he could handle it,and he said yes..but it was not convincing. I feel,and felt embarrsed at his comment,and am not sure how to take it? He has a stressful life,and sometimes suffers from premature ejaculation,but we get round that by using a vibrator. I feel self concious now for maybe being demanding. I really like this guy,but don.t want to come across as a nymphomanic. What did he mean when he said that? Should i stop initiating? ?thanx. X
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (26 June 2011):
good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey,thanks for your good advice sammy. That,s exactly what i.m going to do! X
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (25 June 2011):
i would stop initiating just for a couple of weeks not for good and see if he comes onto you maybe it is something as simple as the fact that you have a higher sex drive than him and he doesnt need it as much
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncraven in london slang means wanting,! Did not explain myself sorry. Thanx for your answers. I just feel i.m pushing him for sex,and feel silly!
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 Definition of CRAVEN
1archaic : defeated, vanquished
2: lacking the least bit of courage : contemptibly fainthearted
— craven noun
— cra·ven·ly adverb
— cra·ven·ness \-v?n-n?s\ noun
Gluttonous has to do with a huge appetite that never seems to be satisfied.
I am unsure if I have the definition of CRAVEN that he meant? But if he said he can handle your sex drive and that you are not gluttonous (also means greedy) then you are fine.
If you have fun with whatever you do, do not get caught up in his words and look to his ACTIONS.
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reader, Nime +, writes (25 June 2011):
 craven means lacking courage. is he saying you're unadventurous in bed?
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