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30-35,
*rincess166
writes:what would you do in this situation, my partner and i of 3 years, have the routine of seeing eachother for a whole weekend, and have maybe one night (fri or sat) to hang with friends. EXCEPT this weekend he told me he was going out on friday and said he would see me on sat or sunday. but then on friday night we were texting and he was very unsure of when he wanted to see me, and kept saying maybe to seeing me on sunday (which we always spend together no matter what) he said he had a rent inspection on tuesday and maybe busy preparing for that so sunday might not be definate.i like to know exactly what my plans are for the weekend and this left me so unsettled. i ended up sending him texts on friday and saturday asking what i did wrong and why was he not wanting to be with me like he normally does. i ended up writing this text" it sounds like when youre bored you want to hang out with me which is bullshit. i only wanna hang with you when you really want to not "maybe" i would rather do stuff with people who actully want to hang with me. way to make a girl feel like shit.he did not reply and on sat night we started texing back and forth.i asked him why he didnt want to see me tonight and he said "because im not bored enough" sarcastically. is he angry from my text??he told me to chill out and stop freaking and that he wasnt sick of me. but he had plans to go out. i asked why couldnt he have told me he had plans in the first place instead of giving me vague maybes throughout friday and saturday? he didnt reply to that and said i was ruining his vibe. and said i was being really annoying and he would see me soon.he then agreed to seeing me on sunday. should i still be mad at him? and why would he be acting liek this out of the blue? he is goin out with a friend who has acess to free drinks at a club but im really sad he didnt see me on friday or saturday.this may sound childish but i feel slightly used by him as we saw each other on thursday and we had sex 3 times and i feel as though he didnt need me for the rest of the weekend. would that be immature to tell him thats how i felt?
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (25 June 2011):
sorry to be blunt and i don.t want to upset you but he maybe cheating on you blokes don.t just suddenly not want to see you unless theres a reason i would watch for other signs of cheating to good luck
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