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41-50,
*llergic2liars
writes:Okay thank you all for answering to my headache and trust me its a headache because I want to love this female, but its not right of her at all but I also have a huge heart. All right here we go the plot thickens and I mean it gets deeper than what most oceans get(so please stay with me on this everyone I need your feed back for this next couple of weeks, thats how thick it gets) Okay two weeks after I returned to town I cancelled our plans to go to out of state for thanksgiving.(she didn't deserve it right) We eventually ended up at my parents house which is also out of state just a different state. Why? okay I needed to catch her off guard. The day before thanks giving I made her call her daughters dad and ask him what did he do with the condom?(She was nervous as all hell)this was great for me because I could here first hand and get a little more of an inside track on the situation. So with that question being asked to him it would make him think that she was pregnant.Which it did cause he replied why are you asking me about this two weeks later and then he said what are you trying to tell me that your pregnant. It's not mine it's dudes baby all I did to you was kiss on you that night. All of this took place at my parents place so she could not avoid it or get loud and argue to change the subject or just get up and leave because I asked of such thing. Stratigically mastermined because I was right there and I could here the whole conversation over the speaker. This in result had made me think and relax alot more about it. But there is still something that just don't sit in well with me about the whole thing? What questions would you all ask to get a solid answer yes or no? Women out there what questions do I need to ask to put her under the pressure cooker? Or do I need to just move on knowing that she would bring another man across the threashold of my privacy. You see im to nice and I just need to battle it out with words and questions with her, I'm pissed and don't know what to say or do.(heeeeeeeeeellllllllllp meeeeeeee.....)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008): Why do you feel you need more answers or any more evidence? Based on what you already know, its pretty clear she cheated on you. So what now? I don't think its necessary for you to ask about the details and what-not. I think it is more than enough information to know that she cheated, period.
If someone cheats on me, that's all I have to know. I don't care how it happened, what position it was in. All I need to know is you cheated and that's it, your opportunity with me is over. Chances are you will never hear from me again. So why are you stalling??
It seems to me like you are searching for "more evidence" because you are not really planning on moving on. Cause if cheating is something you absolutely would not tolerate you would have moved on a long time ago. Perhaps you are hoping that she will apologize so you can forgive her?? You are making a big mistake if you don't just stop asking questions and move on. Its not worth it.
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