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writes:Where is a good place to look for a relationship? I'm 27, soon to be 28, and have never dated. I am interested in trying now, but I don't know where to look or even what to do if I do find someone. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Dont stress about it u might end up with a wrong woman. Loosen-up and be yourself. And dont sit at home and hope a miracle will happen she will just come to your house looking for somebody else only to find that it was a wrong address. Yes it happened to some people a close friend of mine found her husband in some coincidence like that the guy dialed her number instead of the number he wanted and they ended up with a good conversation and later became husband and wife but that is a very rare occurence.
Go out and have fun. Like Polarkite suggested find a lady u like and ask for her number or ajust a small talk and see how it goes dont be too obvious because women can really see and some might brush u off rudely if they arent interested. So brace yourself up for a good challenge and a time of fun.
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reader, stevelc +, writes (1 March 2008):
stevelc is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have never really wanted to until recently. Honestly, I thought I would never care anything about doing that. Mainly I just want a sense of purpose.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Talk to the next attractive woman you see and ask her for her phone number.
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reader, Jovial +, writes (29 February 2008):
There is no better place for finding someone because it all depends on what you are looking for. Best advice is to be yourself and do not compromise your values just for someone to accept you. There are dating sites you can try, places where men and women hang-out like bars, church, parties, workplace, school, community events or any social events can be a good place for u to learn to mingle with other people including men. Know what u want because like you everyone has different taste so becareful but most of enjoy your search
Jovial
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reader, peaches08  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Unfortunatly, if you go out looking for a relationship, its not likely you will instantly find one.Instead you should re-asses the situation and ask yourself, what can i do to MEET NEW PEOPLE? Relationships come around when you least expect them, but usually, you need to have a good circle of friends before it happens. Go out, enoy yourself, and with any luck you may be pleasently suprised.Have you tried chatting to new people on any of the dating sites? This is a start, if you are quite shy about meeting new people. Otherwise, you do have to get out there and make yourself known, a relationship wont come to you, or your living room!Perhaps try joining some sort of Club to do with one of your interestes, join a gym, or start a new hobby, for example dancing lessons. Theres nothing more attractive than a man who can dance!There are plenty of ways to meet new people, the right person will come along soon enough, just dont rush into anything when they do. Hope this helps.
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reader, francine81 +, writes (29 February 2008):
Is there a reason why you havent dated yet? Were you focused on your work or studies? It depends on what you like to do in order to find someone. You may want to try match.com or go out into social scene's where you like to be and start making friends. Don't rush anything, start with small conversations.
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