A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend? Will I continue this commitment? please help me...
View related questions:
ex girlfriend, his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, PokerFace  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Dump his a** I know it will be hard but you have got to be strong. Us women are very independent and we do NOT need a man to make us feel like were wanted. You deserve the BEST!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Never ever feel that you deserve second best... you don't! you deserve to be with someone who loves you and only you completely. Why should you put up with someone who you know is wishing he is with somebody else??? This will only break your heart. i know i am late replying to this post but i hope you have made the right decision and are happy!
...............................
A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 March 2008):
 Saying is one thing and doing is another. He may say that but there is no affirmative actions towards her ex.
It is like you can never forget your love for your ex. It is apart of your history .Sometimes , they get confused and mixed up.
As long as he treat you well, treat it as some loose talk.Most men don't think with their mind when they talk.
Only if you feel he has grown cold or he is not attentive to you anymore, do you leave him.
...............................
A
female
reader, yulantressrose +, writes (1 March 2008):
 It won't be easy for you, but If my boy friend told he that he still loved his x-girl friend, I would ask him, why was he still with me. I would tell him to get with her and leave me alone.You will get over him.
...............................
A
female
reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Ask him why he is not with her then.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): RUN LIKE HELL" Honestly i cannot see anything but grief here. Do you want to go through life being compared to her, being second best, oh girl, just tell him to get stuffed. If she is so good then why isnt he still with her, tell him to buggar off back there. Sorry.
take care
xx
...............................
A
female
reader, Basschick  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 His love for her may eventually fade, if he wants it to. The question is, can you take a back seat in the meantime?...My boyfriend was still in love with his ex, for the first year we were together, but he still wanted to be with me (mainly because there was no chance of a reconciliation with her, so he had no choice but to somehow move on)...I was patient and understanding. During the second year of our relationship, I felt he had shifted gears slightly, but I still worried that if she suddenly appeared on our doorstep, he'd take her back. Now, year three and it seems like we're pretty solid. I know he is in love with me now and has finally been able to put his previous relationship in proper perspective and let it go. You should sit down and talk to your b/f and ask him if he just needs time on his own to get over his ex. Sometimes if we become involved too soon, we end up getting hurt because after a break up, people need distance, and time to heal their own way. If he says no, he wants you to be with him, then you'll have to practice patience and hope that with time, he will get over her. Good luck.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): When you love someone you may not stop, just decide that the relationship doesn't make you happy. It could be that he still loves her, but loves you as well.
...............................
A
female
reader, Serinity +, writes (29 February 2008):
 You should let him go. How can he love you the way you deserve to be loved if his heart belongs to her? He can't. I know it hurts but at least he was honest with you. You can't force love and you can't change it. I would walk away from this relationship and mark it up as experience. Good Luck sweetie!
...............................
A
female
reader, love-him  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 HEY!!
I think this relationship will be very hard to continue, whilst he is still in love with his ex. You should talk to him and see what he feels about you, then this will determine your future..I hope i helped you, Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
...............................
|
