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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I want to reconnect with an ex I haven't spoken to in 2 years. There's no bad blood between us. We spoke after the break-up a few times on good terms until we both graduated. Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ex-boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): Hi Hun
Oh just about everything love it would be so exciting to get the e-mail that would be the start of the face smiling, Talk about how you have been thinking of her and pop some jokes in there, What you are doing now hows life in general make her laugh make her smile. And make her day just be you and enjoy what you write jot it down on a bit of paper first if you want and go from there involve your time together and if you are smiling as you write it then hunny its sure she will when she receives it GOOD LUCK HUNNY WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, peaches08  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Was your relationship a long term one?Why are you wishing to reconnect?Have you considered that she may of moved on in life, and may be quite suprised/shocked to hear from you? When you write this email, dont be overly passionate, she may be involved with someone and it may cause trouble for her!Personally i'd just start off with general chat, ask how she is, what she has been up to, and you should probably apologise for not staying in contact! It has been 2 years after all..
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Hi there,
I would be really pleased to receive an e-mail out of the blue from an old boyfriend. I would hope it would talk about times that we spent together and mutually enjoyed and maybe a few comments on jokes and in things that only you and she shared. I once saw an old boyfriend who I hadn't seen for 3 years and he talked about how much he wished he'd acted differently and that he had always felt a lot for me etc and because I still felt something for him I really enjoyed hearing this. It bought us close together again but sadly it didn't work out this time around either. I think women like to be told how attractive they are so put that in and that she was always very special to you and then reminisce about the past. If you just want her as a friend then general catching up talk will do but if you want to rekindle something then definitely say that she was very beautiful, and how she was a very special woman.
I hope that helps - good luck
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reader, francine81 +, writes (29 February 2008):
sure why not, especially if i want involved with anyone at the time..its always nice to rekindle spirits
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