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writes:Hi, I met a girl on the weekend, went back to her house with my mate and her mate. We didn't do anything just watched a film and fell asleep together on the couch.I got her number and I'm always first to text. When we text she seems interested but the first time I asked her out on a date she didn't reply for hours but she eventually text back saying yes. The next day we were meant to go out I couldn't get hold of her so I thought she'd blown me off. The day after that I gave her 1 text just to ask what happened yesterday and she text back saying sorry she was really ill and had been all week, she then text saying she did want to go out and maybe we could do it again so after a few texts I asked if she wanted to go out and she said yes. I text back asking what she wanted to do but I had no reply again. Should I text her again today or wait for her reply?It's doing my head in because if she wasn't interested I wouldn't care but because one minuite she seems interested and the next I can't get hold of her or she doesn't reply to texts it's winding me up. We got on really well and she is absolutley stunning, that's why I don't really want to give up on it just yet.What should I do? I want to stop texting to see if she will eventually text me first, but if she doesn't I'll be cheesed off.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 I am wondering here what happened to the telephone. The proper way to ask a girl out in on the telephone, I think. That way you can have a discussion about what to do. You've kind of left her holding the bag on that decision and maybe she's struggling with what to do?
I think you should give it a few days and then give her a call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): I'm sorry to say this honey but I get the impression that she's lost her interest in you - not completely, but she seems to be having second thoughts about getting into a relationship. It doesnt mean its your fault, maybe she's just gone through a nasty break-up or something. If you'd like to try once more, text her suggesting a date, and if she still doesnt text back for a while, tell her that if she doesnt want to go then she doesnt have to. Show her that her behavior isnt very nice - she should respect you enough to not just leave you hanging or lie to you or anything. But as I say, maybe you just arent meant to be, because if she really was THAT interested surely she would make more of an effort.. But good luck honey ok :]
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reader, Serinity +, writes (29 February 2008):
 I think you've established your interest in her. Just because she doesn't respond immediately doesn' mean she's not interested. She could just be a busy person. I wouldn't constantly text her if she doesn't respond right away as that can send a vibe that you are possessive. You don't want to push her away already. She's said that she'd like to go out with you so now it's just a matter of coordinating a date. I can understand that you are interested in this girl and you don't want to lose contact with her but instead of repeatidly texting her about going out just send her a text saying that you just wanted to check in to see how she's doing. Maybe say that you enjoyed the time you spent together and you are looking forward to spending more time with her if she allows it.
Good luck sweetie!
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