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writes:Not long ago I wanted to get away so I booked a cruise. I thought it would be something good to do by myself and get away and think. I enjoyed it. While I was there on the first evening during the get acquainted activities I met a younger man. He was traveling with his family. He is 19 and I am 37. We hit it off and then spent a lot of time doing activities together over the course of the journey. His family did not seem to mind him and I spending time together. On the last port call of the trip his family went. However, I asked him if he would like to stay on the boat and swim. We ended up in my cabin where we had sex. I really enjoyed the passion. I loved the part that a younger man wanted to have sex with me. It made me feel sexy. I really needed it. His family did not know that we did it. I would really like him to come visit me in my home. How can I tell him that I want him to visit me? How can I tell him that I would like to be made love too? How can I find if he is interested in seeing me, an older woman again? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 As much as it was fun to spend time with this young man, I'm quite sure that his family thought that your interest in him was as a responsible adult, a surrogate parental figure, not as a lover. There is a reason why you and he kept it to yourselves that you had had sex. It probably wasn't because it was great sex - it was probably wonderful to have sex with him and I'm sure it made you feel like a woman again. But his parents probably wouldn't approve because of the age gap. They wouldn't consider you as as a candidate for a future girlfriend for their son and I'm quite sure that they wouldn't approve of you asking for him to visit. He is probably just getting his feet on the ground and heading into University or starting his Career soon, and they would think that you were being irresponsible to distract him for your own selfish purposes. You actually didn't say anything about whether or not you cared for this boy, just that you liked the passion and the sex, that it made you feel sexy and that you have needs and want him to make love to you. All in all, it sounds like you are using him for sex, which is a bit predatory because of his youth and inexperience with an older woman. I think that if you care for him at all, you should recognize that their are too many sacrifices that HE would have to make in his young life and that it would be wrong to seek him out any further. I'd keep it as a lovely fantasy to keep you warm, two ships that passed in the night, corny - but true! lol ;-) Take care.
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (26 December 2007):
you could try talking to him?
it might help just a bit.
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