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I have feelings for my friend and she's recently single, should I make a move?

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Question - (25 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive recently had feelings for a girl ive known for a few months.

Shes a year younger than me (im 18) and we generally get on quite well.

She has recently split up with her boyfriend and has started to talk to me a bit more than she used to.

I dont know how to approach her as i feel if im too foward i may upset her and ruin our current friendship.

With the new year approaching, its likely that im going to be at the same new years party that she is. Im just planning to be myself around her, but i want to know that in her current awkward emotional situation are there any things i shouldnt do/say?

Im realy confused as to what i should do and as im generally not very confident im afraid im going to let my chance slip.

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A female reader, truly_unique New Zealand +, writes (28 December 2007):

i would not make the first move yet buddy

i reckon that shes going thru a difficult time and needs your friendship right now and a shoulder to cry on.

as for the new years party i wouldnt make any moves on that day either...even if you are intoxicated dont.

give it a little bit more time and the signs should be clearer...and if she wants you know she will let youknow.

best of luck

xx

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