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writes:I am 18 and he is 21. i actually like this guy from 6 years. we were at high school together in year 9 but now we are in a different countries cuz i moves to USA but he is still in my home country. he is doing his bachelors and so am i. i liked him but i never told him about it tho i think he knew from my friends. After a long time being friends for 6 years we met, his grandparents live here in USA and he came to visit them and before i met him he told me he likes me and wants to get married in future but never metioned that he loves me and we started going out. after meeting each other for 4 months v were happy and he went back.Then he started ignoring me, picked my call and put it down on my face and i neevr rang again. he comes online on msn but never talks on instant messaging i msged him quiet a few times but he ignores and i was fedup and the last msg i sent him saying "you played your name and you won congrats hope you had fun and i will never try to talk to u again BYE", he didnt block me or deleted me from his msn list but only ignores me, i just cant understand whats going on..i asked him if he doesnt want to move on let me know, but he said nothing..last time he chated to me he was acting a bit weird, cuz we have a same social circle with friends he told me that " he found out i have been saying to people that he is after me and i can do anything i want " i told him i didnt say nothing and he belived me an chated to me normally but since then he never chated after that.i love to from so long and i just cant get over it. i cant take this fact that he is ignoring me. i seriosuly dont know what to dohelp me PLZZ and tell me what to do exactly..??? :(
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 I had a really hard time reading your message. I think you should stop texting him and call him. It is your texting that is getting in the way of the two of you communicating properly (cause I had trouble reading your writing too).
When you use written messages, you have to be extremely precise, because what you write is exactly what the other person reads. When you call and talk on the phone, the other person can also hear the tone in your voice, so they also get clues from that into what you are meaning behind what you are saying. When you talk face to face, you can read body language, hear tone of voice, pick up on other clues and hear the words too.
I just think that the messages that you have sent have been either difficult to decipher or that you may have sent too many of them. Call Him!
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