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*evonique
writes:Ok i have a bit of a problem i love me b/f but sometimes i swear he has no clue about anything now im not sayin he is stupid but he just knows how to push my buttons and say the wrong things at the wrong time.....how do i drop a hint about how i feel with out being mean and with out telling him what he doesnt want to hear? Reply to this Question
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 Sometimes, in a relationship, you have to say things your partner does not like to hear but you need to say them anyway. It is very important, when in a relationship, to be truthful to what you think and feel. If he is making you uncomfortable, just find a way to let him know, talk to him! You don't have to be mean, just say you feel (however you feel) when he does (whatever you don't like). This way you start a conversation and see how he feels and you should be able to get to a good conclusion for both of you!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): well i have had the same problems with my Bf. what you can always do is change the topic when he is mean or pretend that what eva wrong things he is saying to bother u or hurt u doesnt work. if u do that he might stop or choose a different way to do so if he enjoys. whenever he starts try to change the topic an try to tell him how much u love him and there is no point doing that lets just enjoy our lives an reltionship and not waste time talking about random silly things.
it might effect him some way or other. if this not works then ignore him when he starts to say wrong things, just say u are not in a nice mood so i chat to u ina bit i need to do soemthing imp and make a good excusee..
:P try it lets c if these help
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reader, devonique +, writes (26 December 2007):
devonique is verified as being by the original poster of the question ight, well the title is screwed b/cuz i dont want him to push my buttons he does that enough
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (26 December 2007):
wel
thats a very confusing situation
the best is to communicate with him...please dont tell him hes stupid tho..but when hes pushing your buttons tell him. theres no need to be rude or mean but a simple please dont do that it really annoys me or that really hurt my feelings will be enuf to put him in his place
good luck
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