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writes: I am seeing a guy in secret. He is 12 years older than me and i've been with him for 6 months. I really love him and i we have just had sex for the first time. It was my first time i've ever done something like that and now i can't stop thinking about it and i long to do it more. He says i need to calm down and stop trying to have sex with him constantly. Am i normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, nikandme  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 hi i am 14, i am very woried about you with this 27year old guy. i dont meen to sound rude or mean or enything. but having sex with him is just wrong in so so many way's.
it is very very bad of him. he is not responsible. he is breaking the law and you might not know it yet but he is herting you alot. you may not feel it yet but im afraid you will.
take this from somone who has seen it happen 6 time's with my family. and friend's not one of them worked out. and my family and friend's that went through it are hert very badly. this could scare you for life.
please take what me and the other people say to heart. we want the best for you and dont want to see you hert.
im in a realationship right now. and i fully understand how you might feel like you are in love with him. and you may be. but it should not be. he is taking advantage of you. and me being a person that does thing's right. and it protective. i have to say i would probly hit this man for what he is doing.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 You're normal, dear. There is nothing wrong with your feeling the way you feel and your wanting what you want.
I'm worried about you, however. You're relationship with this 27 year old is not appropriate, but, most of all, it's not convenient for you. I know that you love him and you like the new experiences you're having, but, he's an adult and you're not. You are not living the same stage of life. I'm worried for you because you could end up badly hurt by this relationship. Your heart must be tender yet, and I'm afraid his isn't.
The reason why he is seeing you in secret is that he is breaking the law. He isn't permitted to have sex with a girl as young as you, for good reasons. It's easy for an adult to take advantage of a girl like you.
I'm sure that now everything seems so wonderful to you. I just hope that you don't come out of this badly hurt.
I wish you the best.
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