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writes:Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go with him.I'm so glad i did he tells me he loves me all the time and i think i love him but his parents say its puppy love and pretty much think it wont last but is it true love and if it is how are we suppose to prove them wrong and show them its real? Also, I want to have sex with him but he is a virgin and im not, i think he wants to but im not sure if its because he likes me or if all he wants is sex what should i do to find out?
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reader, nikandme +, writes (25 December 2007):
 doc,i rspect you'r answer. this is her boyfriend bye the way. if you can find my post when it come's out it will be asking how to get her to trust me more. and it will be a little more detailed. not bye much though.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (25 December 2007):
 Doc right but it seems you won't take that advice. If you expect people to give you advice like your an adult, well you got another thing coming! You say your gonna make your b/f wait, then you can tell if he wants just sex! you know how pathetic that is? your only 14yr olds, he's properly counting his lucky stars he's got a girl like yiu, not that many out there.
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (25 December 2007):
its horrible when parents tell you its just puppy love and you just look at them and think BUT ITS REAL!!!! i know..i was thinking the exact same thing..only 5 moths later the king of all jerks was kissing someone else...i gues the only thing i can say is time will tell...time will show your parents that its true love...time will also show you if he only wants sex...i think holding off will be a very good idea..even if only for a year ( i know it sounds like a very long time but its shouldnt matter if its true love).
if you truly love this boy and you really believe that he likes you not just for sex and there is not ONE shred of doubt in your mind only then you should start thinking about sex. mayb getting onto a contractive pill and using a condom aswell would be a very very very good idea to ensure no little babies end up running around.
good luck young lover
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reader, devonique +, writes (25 December 2007):
devonique is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanx for the advise Doc, Im not sure i'll use it but i do believe holding off for awhile will come to show if sex is all he wants or not
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (25 December 2007):
 The best way he can show you he really loves you is to stay away from sex until you and he are old enough to be responsible parents.
All it takes is one accident and you will both be parents with no way to care for a baby physically, emotionally, mentally or financially.
You are both still young so please don't throw away your childhood for something you will be able to have for many years once you are more responsible.
You will never be able to get your childhood back so don't waste it. Doc
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