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writes:Well I was just going by life (like always). But then I went over to my friends house and her aunt's wife had her best friend down from a different town. And well we just always had a connection with one another. But then I didn't come over for a couple of weeks. Then when I showed up he wasn't there and I didn't even think about it. But then around four in the morning he showed up with a couple of other people and they just came from Odessa and well me and him just kept on flirting. Then we started to drink a little. But we didn't even get a buzz. Because we were just so into talking that we just forgot about drinking. Then later on that night we ended up having sex. I was his first in 3 years. The problem is that he is 25 and I'm 16 going on 17. So what do I do to know if he was just wanting a one night thing or he wants a relationship. Help me please. I have never been stuck in this kind of mess before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): I am 16 and my boyfriend is 24, im 17 next week but we have been going out almost a year. i think if you are mature enough then just go for it.
he may have just wanted to get laid because it has been so long.
do some investigating. he lives very far away, perhaps it isnt worth it.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (26 December 2007):
 Tread lightly here.
You may have no problem if your state is a state where the age of consent is 16.
If, however, it is at age 18 he could be arrested and charged with statuatory rape.
The only other thing you will have to deal with is the age difference, that is if he really loves you.
Some have no problem with an age difference such as yours but it may be a long row to hoe just because you are so young.
I really wish you hadn't gotten mixed up in sex at such a young age because you are already throwing away your childhood. That is something you can never get back once it is gone. Sex is something you can always look forward to.
The main thing now is make sure he is really in love with you before you try to get too serious with him or it will lead to a broken heart for you. Doc
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