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writes:Hello,I would like to ask you for advice please. Me and my girlfriend are dating each other a year and something. We always had different friends. She hates alcohol thats why she would never hang out with my friends again. Now, she goes dancing pretty often but without me. It's just that the discos today give me the creeps when together with my girlfriend. Everyone dancing so near each other. I would be so worried, that when she's not dancing with me she will she would dance with other guys. If I see that it will hurt me. I would rather stay at home to not see this. Even if she would leave me standing and started talking with other guys, it would make me jealous. Btw, I also go to discos sometimes but usually I don't dance but talk with my mates and drink. So do you see this as a problem, that I don't hang out with her when she is with her friends? Should I visit a psychologist or something about this? I just love the moments when it's just the two of us. Do you think it's ok for a relationship to work this way? Thank you very much.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 You are perfectly fine
I have a mate who when he goes to the pub he will sit with his mates(me inc) and his girlfriend will sit at another table drinking and talking to her friends. They look at each other and sometimes kiss and sit for awhile but thats it. But afterwards they have their couple time.
So your ok, just enjoy your special time together as it doesnt have to be 24/7
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 I admire the fact that the both of you can send some time together and yet have time to spend with friends. So to answer your question, YES! I do believe that your relationship can work out. Whatever it is that bothers you, talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel and what your worries are. She should understand. The both of you just need to talk what problems there are and maybe try even going out together with your friends. You dont need to go to a psychologist because your not crazy. Its understandable about why you worry but give your gf a break. Dont assume she'll do something wrong if it hasnt happened before ( IF it hasnt happened). Dont think so negative. Talk things out with her and listen to her thoughts as well. Your relationship will be fine. Good luck to you both and Merry Christmas!
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