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writes: Dear Cupid, I am so annoyed with just lying there during sex, my boyfriend has never questioned it and has always said I am good in bed, however, I still don't feel satisfied myself. I'd rather not introduce toys because I don't want that to ruin the sex by my body becoming used to the toys and making me even less satisfied than the present state. Has anyone else got any ideas on how to spice the sex up and how to make it much more horny for the both of us? Many Thanks,Rebecca xx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (5 November 2006):
 Go to the grocery store and pick up a Cosmopolitan... that magazine always has super fun tips and suggestions on how to spice things up.
The person who answered before me had it right on. Try dressing up for each other. Role playing isn't so much about toys and more about props.
But, (again, like the person below me said) don't rule out toys! Your body won't get reliant on them. Vibrators are a lot of fun... use them on you OR on your partner before, after or during sex. (during is tons of fun)
Anal beads, if you're looking to get super kinky. Just adds a whole new sensation.
Cosmo... or their website. Always fun.
Good luck and happy sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): I would suggest introducing some food maybe, like chocolate spread or ice and even friut.
If that doesnt appeal then try dressing up for eachother. try to find out what he would like you dressed as and then get the costume in secret and supprise him one day!.
Dont rule toys out completely, you can use toys together, he can use a vibrator on you before sex, and I swear by my vibrating bullet, (you can use it on your clit during sex or alone)its excellent!!. your body wont become dependant on theses toys but it will help you discover what really turns you on.
ok good luck.
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